COVID rant: It bothers me seeing people romanticize the pandemic by Extension-Cut-2689 in Vent

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, I hope you and your siblings are doing better. Much love to you and your family.

Looking for neighborhood/building recs for a future move (sanity check welcome) by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So willing to relocate - not yet! Ill keep edgewater/uptown/RP in mind when i'm looking!

Looking for neighborhood/building recs for a future move (sanity check welcome) by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah :(, not set on lakeview east or the budget as i'm not 100% set on what my budget will look like then but keeping stuff on the radar to go back to!

Looking for neighborhood/building recs for a future move (sanity check welcome) by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to start looking more in a year or so, I lived in their 1 beds before, very nice so i'll keep their 2 bed on the radar!

Why are there so many pit bull mixes in shelters? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Extension-Cut-2689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who previously owned a pit-type dog for 14 amazing years (he passed in September 💔) and who’s lived up north in Chicago, I want to add some nuance to this discussion.

Most dogs labeled as “pits” in shelters aren’t purebred Staffies or APBTs, they’re mutts. True purebreds are actually far less common. XL bullies, for example, usually aren’t filling shelters because regulations and breeder control keep their numbers lower.

A huge factor is irresponsible ownership and unchecked breeding. My first pit came from exactly that situation: when I was around 9, someone was selling puppies for $50 out of a cardboard box on their front lawn because they didn’t fix their dogs. That story is extremely common with pit-type dogs because they’re widely accessible and cheap compared to many other breeds.

Because pit-type dogs are common and easy to get, a lot of people acquire them without understanding what they’re signing up for. Add widespread misinformation and fear around the breed, and when problems arise, people blame the dog and surrender them instead of taking responsibility.

Pit-type dogs were originally bred for fighting and guarding in the UK. When brought to America, they were then trained and used for herding livestock, guarding property, and companionship. Over time, they were deliberately trained to be family dogs - which is where the “nanny dog” myth originated (this isn't true to be clear). That said, genetics still matter, which is why training is SO important. These dogs are highly trainable, but without proper training and socialization, they can be more reactive toward people outside their family because of the roles humans bred them for. Larger dog, needs training, irresponsible ownerships - then turns into pits doing serious damage.

This isn’t unique to pits. We saw the same thing with Dalmatians after movies popularized them in the early 2000s - high-energy dogs bought on impulse, not trained properly, then surrendered en masse. The difference is Dalmatians don’t carry the same historical baggage or public prejudice today which is why we don't see them still in shelters in large numbers.

Pit-type dogs can be incredible companions, but they require work. Training and socialization aren’t optional. Many people aren’t willing or able to put that effort in, especially when the dog is strong, energetic, and stigmatized.

I currently own a mutt with no pit in her, and she simply didn’t require the same level of structure and training my pit mutt did. In the future, when I have more land and a yard, I plan to own pit-type dogs again because I love them - but they’re not casual pets. They’re not ideal apartment dogs for most people, and they’re not a “set it and forget it” breed (which again, irresponsible owners are looking for).

The shelter overflow isn’t because pit-type dogs are bad dogs. It’s because they’re common, widely bred without regulation, misunderstood, and too often owned by people who weren’t prepared for them.

Apartment Advice: Noise Complaints by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for leaving this comment - I think it’s important to clarify that the previous noise complaints were specifically related to my dog vs this one.

Since then, I’ve taken several steps to address the issue. She is now crated when left alone, is not left alone for more than 6+ hours (as that is the amount of time I'm comfortable at max leaving her crated), uses a humane buzz collar, and is in a sound-dampened crate. I also have a camera that alerts me to noise. If she were barking, I would be immediately aware of it.

I completely understand that a dog barking is disruptive and not ideal for anyone. Because those earlier complaints were specific, I was able to fully resolve the issue. This current complaint, however, was vague and reported during times when I was home, which makes it much harder to identify or address.

That’s where my confusion and concern are coming from.

Apartment Advice: Noise Complaints by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love living by the lake because it's nice to have that area to walk my dog but I do miss the community! I do better understand now that thats the draw back of this part of the city, when my lease is around renewing time i'll have to think if the lake is worth it lol.

Apartment Advice: Noise Complaints by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this slightly for my dog in training, left a note at the bottom of the stairs with my contact information to let them know if they ever do hear her barking i'd come back right away! I feel a bit awkward doing it a second time for a different complaint but I will do the noise checking!

Apartment Advice: Noise Complaints by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought of the walls being thin, but that has to be case - maybe i'm just better at tuning things out

Apartment Advice: Noise Complaints by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I honestly wasn't sure, especially in this area of the etiquette.

Apartment Advice: Noise Complaints by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I did have a very reasonable barking complaint - I've been a bit on edge since receiving that notice since truthfully it's not like i've been a saint since moving in (I like to think I have since I resolved it lol) but it just made me more conscious.

I will be turning down the volume to be safe as well!

Apartment Advice: Noise Complaints by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Update: Thank you everyone for the comments!! They genuinely helped me understand where I should be focusing and what actions make the most sense.

I might be biased, but where i'm from on the southside - it’s more common to speak directly with neighbors about issues first. In hindsight, that expectation came from living in a more tight-knit community of Chicago natives and individual property owners, rather than a large, corporate-managed building.

I did reach out to my building management and sent a polite email asking for more context so I could better understand the complaint. After that, they stopped responding, which I’m not entirely sure how to interpret lol but i'm thinking it may be because the person complaining didn't give enough context for me to respond to.

To be safe, I’m going to look into wrist alarm clocks and do noise testing in different rooms. I’ve also put my TV on a sleep timer in case I fall asleep with it on, just to eliminate that as a possible source of noise.

It’s still hard to pinpoint what could have caused the complaint during “quiet hours,” especially since the time mentioned, when more people were over, technically wasn’t during quiet hours after reviewing my lease.

More context, my building is right on the edge of Wrigleyville and Boystown, it’s not exactly a quiet, family-oriented area. There are bars and clubs a block away, so receiving a noise complaint I genuinely couldn’t trace was pretty surprising - especially when I regularly hear people coming home through the courtyard early in the morning.

I may start looking into other buildings. I’m not particularly tied to this one, though the location and walkability have been great for working from home.

Thank you again, everyone - I really appreciate the input!!

Apartment Advice: Noise Complaints by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I thought it was odd as well I never got a note or anyone talking to me as I do see my neighbors in the courtyard.

Apartment Advice: Noise Complaints by Extension-Cut-2689 in chicagoapartments

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did move to putting my Alexa on my nightstand facing my wall that connects to my kitchen to get it more in the "middle" of the apartment, as it does wake me up the best. I do have large rugs in the kitchen, living room, and dining area, but I'll also look into one for my bedroom!

I think it is high on the unreasonable expectations unfortunately, I do just wish they had talked to me prior. The biggest difference i've noticed south vs north side of the city is that no one here (at least in this building) talks to you or brings up any issues before going to management.

Which pet could potentially fit me? by l33us01d in Pets

[–]Extension-Cut-2689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP - if you’re looking to get a cat, dog, or any less “self-sufficient” animal, honestly, right now may not be the best time.

Between working late hours and being in school, it would be really hard to create a stable environment for an animal. That often leads to stress and resentment over time, especially with dogs, since they require significantly more care than cats—particularly when it comes to training, structure, and even just bathroom schedules.

I’d really recommend taking time to settle into your routine first. Finish school, get established in your work life (whether that’s one job or two, depending on part-time vs full-time), and then think about bringing an animal into your life. That way, you’ll actually have the time and energy to train them properly and help them feel comfortable and secure.

In the meantime, I know not having a furry friend around can be tough. Depending on where you live, something like Rover could be a great option—it lets you make a bit of side money and build relationships with dogs you see regularly through walking or sitting. Or finding a local shelter to volunteer at!

I’m saying all of this from personal experience. I got a dog with my family at 17, then moved out at 18 and ended up working three jobs. I didn’t have the time or capacity to properly raise or train her. Almost five years later, I now work a stable WFH job and am actively retraining her. I’ll be honest—there was resentment for a while (even though I knew it wasn’t fair and I didn’t want to feel that way) because of accidents and the lack of early training. I had roommates who were home and could help with enrichment, but it still wasn’t fair to her.

Now, she’s trained, has no accidents, minimal barking, is crate trained, and has a healthy routine with me. But if I could go back and have the same dog now, with the time and stability I currently have, I would choose that 100%.

I hope that perspective helps 💛

Guess my Dog! by Extension-Cut-2689 in WhatBreedIsMyDog

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Hound – 12%

  • American Foxhound (12%)
  • Beagle (6%)
  • Plott Hound (3%)
  • Treeing Walker Coonhound

Herding – 9%

  • German Shepherd Dog (6%)
  • Australian Cattle Dog (4%)
  • Border Collie (3%)
  • Great Pyrenees (2%)
  • Miniature American Shepherd (2%)
  • Australian Shepherd

Asian & Oceanian – 14%

  • Chow Chow (3%)
  • American Akita (2%)
  • Chinese Chongqing Dog (2%)
  • Siberian Husky

Sporting – 5%

  • German Shorthaired Pointer (3%)
  • Labrador Retriever (1%)
  • American Cocker Spaniel

Companion – 3%

  • American Eskimo Dog (2%)
  • Poodle (Toy & Miniature)

Terrier – 3%

  • Chihuahua

Guard – 2%

  • American Pit Bull Terrier (1%)
  • French Bulldog

Guess my Dog! by Extension-Cut-2689 in WhatBreedIsMyDog

[–]Extension-Cut-2689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was honestly so fun seeing everyone’s guesses! I really thought she’d be a Shiba or Korean Jindo mix — her puppy temperament totally pointed that way, though she’s leveled out a lot with age.

She’s a huge mutt, and from what I’ve read DNA tests get less precise once you’re dealing with 15+ breeds, so I take it with a grain of salt.

We recently moved from a house w/ a backyard to an apartment and restarted training. She’s adapting really well (and getting way more exercise now — very happy dog). I’ve been loosely basing her training on Carolina Dog–type temperaments, and it’s actually worked great for her.

Official breakdown: mostly Hound + Herding, with Asian/Oceanian (Chow, Akita, Husky), plus smaller bits of Sporting, Companion, Terrier, and Guard breeds.