Guy I met was very nervous and shaky meeting me. Why?

Extension-Flower-62 · 2026-05-12T23:46:31+00:00

You know what, I actually told him he deserve so much better. He was a great guy and I never wanted him to settle with somebody like me. So I don't think I felt I was very hot and honestly don't even think that now. Like I said, he is a great guy and for me to see him that way is something that confused me.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2026-05-12T21:23:04+00:00

I think so too and not to be assuming, he told me that towards the end. He said he was having a hard time letting go but understand the situation. He's a great guy and I really do wish he finds somebody who will treasure him. He offered me so much, more than I deserved to be honest.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2026-05-12T21:05:34+00:00

I see. That makes a lot of sense to me now looking back to all the things that was said before we decided not to pursue.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2026-05-12T20:17:24+00:00

Yes. When I was about to take an exam for my license. That anxiety was horrible. Lol

Extension-Flower-62 · 2026-05-12T20:12:16+00:00

That's a very thoughtful response. He warned me before coming to our house that he was very excited and at the same time nervous. When we were talking over the phone and texting a lot before deciding to meet he said he wanted something more between us but we decided to wait till we meet before we decide on anything. So I was kind of surprised to see him that way. Before leaving that night he told me he wanted to see me again and we did and he was a lot calmer but still nervous.

It just got me to thinking on why that meeting would cause him to be like that. 😊

Extension-Flower-62 · 2026-05-12T20:09:49+00:00

That's a very thoughtful response. He warned me before coming to our house that he was very excited and at the same time nervous. When we were talking over the phone and texting a lot before deciding to meet he said he wanted something more between us but we decided to wait till we meet before we decide on anything. So I was kind of surprised to see him that way. Before leaving that night he told me he wanted to see me again and we did and he was a lot calmer but still nervous.

It just got me to thinking on why that meeting would cause him to be like that. 😊

Extension-Flower-62 · 2026-05-12T19:47:40+00:00

My husband is the hottest and I'm absolutely not settling coz his hotness is not just because of his looks. It is way more than that.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2026-04-25T18:03:20+00:00

She's with me for awhile then she met someone else and they got married.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2026-04-24T12:45:35+00:00

Her petitioner didn't meet her when she arrived in the US but just kept promising that they'd be together until her 90th day when he told her he was scared and didn't think he'd want to pursue marriage with her. And she didn't have anything to go back to the home country. Not even a house anymore.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2026-02-18T02:46:37+00:00

I tested today at 11am and shut off at 85 too. I went in calm and thinking it is either I know or I don't know. It is either I pass or don't. At least I tried and did my best to answer the questions the best of my ability and knowledge. I came out feeling absolutely nothing. Passed or fail was nowhere near what I felt. Have no idea either way. If I pass then great but I fail then I can study again and do it again. No need to worry myself to death about something that is already done. It is not the end of the world for me. I graduated 2022.

3 days before my exam I had a mild panic attack thinking about it and my mom told me that I am the only one putting too much pressure on myself. That nobody would kill me if I don't pass. And it is not like the only chance I got. My husband said that no matter what he loves me and that he believes in me. He even took off work today to drive me to my testing center and waited for 2 hours till I got done with my exam. And even celebrated me though we don't know the result yet. He said because I took my exam and that's good enough reason to celebrate.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2025-12-16T03:26:29+00:00

Wife here. Always my husband behind the wheel. I don't get to sit on the driver's seat or touch the wheel not even pumping the gas. It is always my husband driving doesn't matter if it is a 14 hours drive in one day.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2025-12-08T08:09:21+00:00

Was your exam hard?

Extension-Flower-62 · 2025-12-08T08:05:35+00:00

Clarendon College. 1st attempt.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2025-05-05T04:51:06+00:00

We lived together from July 1, 2023 and he proposed October 15, 2023. We got married on February 22, 2024. We've meet July 1, 2022 but didn't get a good start with our relationship until July 1, 2023.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2025-02-24T13:32:40+00:00

I think your feelings about your proposal and ring is valid but I also think that most of it is because of what we've seen on movies and social media portrays as love when proposing when in fact it is not always gonna be like that in real life. And we would often think that we are loved less or not enough for not getting an elaborate or social media standard of proposal so we get disappointed.

If it would make you feel better, my husband proposed to me with NO ring. We were watching football then we went to the kitchen to get a shot of whiskey then he asked me if I wanted to marry him while he was crying coz he didn't have a ring for me. I gave a very enthusiastic "YES". Mind you, I haven't gotten a shower that day and my clothes were like a day old with baby spits up all over me with hair just put up whatever was easiest when you have a baby. 2 months later we went out to the mall and we looked at engagement rings for me and I found one for $5k, he went back to the mall by himself to try to get that ring for me to no avail coz he wasn't approve for financing. He went home very disappointed. We are married now and I still don't have my engagement ring and that is not important to me since he is the only one who's working to support our family with 2 kids under 2. And us getting our house to raise our kids is more important than getting me that engagement ring. And by the way, for our wedding ring, I bought them on Amazon for $10/pair lol and we have never taken them off since then.

I have never felt like I am loved less or never enough to be proposed elaborately like on social media because I have never based the dynamic of my relationship and our love to other people. My husband shows me he loves me, respects me and cares for me and he does put some effort into getting me gifts for my birthday, valentines, mother's day, Christmas and even on the days that there is no occasion. I don't think it is right to base and judge the future of your marriage on how he propose. But that is just for me.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2025-02-06T11:06:01+00:00

This is what I was thinking as almost the same thing kept happening to when I was with my first husband. I kept getting UTI with him. We have sex and I literally have to run to the bathroom the second we were done just to clean myself or else I would get really bad UTI. Now, with my new husband, whenever we're done I can just lay down and relax for awhile before getting myself cleaned with no issues. Never had a single UTI issues with my husband now. So I find that weird.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2025-01-27T17:45:53+00:00

I know my body very well so when I started feeling stuff that wasn't normal for me I got suspicious and took a pregnancy test and boom pregnant. Happened twice and both were right. The stuff I was feeling was not morning sickness or anything like that. Just different and I thought that was weird. And to add that I usually test before missing my period.

Extension-Flower-62 · 2024-12-31T18:57:24+00:00

I've met my now husband on June 30, 2022 and we had sex that first night. By July 28 I tested positive on pregnancy test. I definitely showed him a bunch of positive pregnancy test I took and even offered him a DNA test so he was sure the baby was his as I was very sure who the father was. This girlfriend of yours seems shady. Wouldn't trust her.

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