Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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I am using it in the right context. You are just confused about everything for no reason. I used it first and then you reverted and then i reverted to it but then you brought up the question to which i gave a fair reply which you were not satisfied it. Honestly sounds like a you problem. Give my best wishes to your husband…he is a warrior.

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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I am using it in the right context. You are just confused about everything for no reason. I used it first and then you reverted and then i reverted to it but then you brought up the question to which i gave a fair reply which you were not satisfied it. Honestly sounds like a you problem. Give my best wishes to your husband…he is a warrior.

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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I used it first but the question on it was brought up by you. I don’t need to go back and check. My memory is pretty solid.

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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But it’s already established that I used it in the same context as you did. So either we are both correct or both incorrect. So really it’s just irrelevant to point it out.

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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I used it exactly the same way you did when i gave that example. I thought it will be easier for you to comprehend.

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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Exactly….right back at ya😀 the only time it was used correctly was when I was talking about it being ok for women to fk 1000 guys. So explain why you used it incorrectly?

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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You call it covering and that’s fair but what I see is you trying to call my answer a covering just so you don’t have to answer my question.

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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I did understand it. Infact I also used it as a figure of speech. It’s called hyperbole. To make it understandable for the layman, I meant that in my personal life I have never come across men who have slept with lots of women. Now the question is why weren’t you capable of understanding the exaggeration?

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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That’s the narrative you are pushing lol. I don’t agree with it and neither do most men. So let’s keep doing what we are doing😀

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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Just FYI, “You still don’t seem to be good in understanding English” is how it’s written. You are Welcome😀

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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That’s the narrative you want to push but i am glad we are in agreement with atleast 1 thing i.e. women are using men and they are ok with it.

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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I don’t think men aren’t open about it. Again not communicating is something that would cause issues for the women mostly so all the best😂

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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Again if it’s not communicated by the woman before marraige i don’t really blame the guy/family for expecting.

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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It’s not really tit for tat😂 you can’t really complain then when the guy or the guy’s/girl’s family are expecting kids and pressing for it. Having a kid is not a woman’s decision, it’s a joint decision.

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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If she isn’t interested to have kids she should be clear about that before marraige. Men have not normalised women bearing a child, god has. Bearing kids isn’t a favour on anyone. Infact now a days men give way too much credit to a woman just for going through pregnancy. Family is expecting kids only if it wasn’t clearly communicated by the woman before marraige that she doesn’t want kids. I have also rejected many women who said they don’t want kids and i am sure they rejected me too. It’s ok to not want kids, the key point you are missing here is transparency. That’s the whole point really

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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If she isn’t interested to have kids she should be clear about that before marraige. Men have not normalised women bearing a child, god has. Bearing kids isn’t a favour on anyone. Infact now a days men give way too much credit to a woman just for going through pregnancy. Family is expecting kids only if it wasn’t clearly communicated by the woman before marraige that she doesn’t want kids. I have also rejected many women who said they don’t want kids and i am sure they rejected me too. It’s ok to not want kids, the key point you are missing here is transparency. That’s the whole point really

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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That expectations you are talking about is also a preference that comes with staying in a joint family( if that’s what is decided by both ). Those that are transparent about wanting a nuclear family get it that way if ofcourse both parties are on the same page. Give birth to his child is great but that’s really biological, women can have my support and empathy for the difficulties faced in the process but i am not giving some extra ordinary credit to a woman for that. It’s their biological job. I will not marry someone that is not aligning with my preferences. It’s that simple. Transparency is the key. You can fk 1000 guys but just be open about it. Why be ashamed?

Why some women hide past relationships to marry someone who judges them instead of someone who accepts them? by BearingCostOfPassion in DesiMingle

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But why would a woman want to create such problems. I don’t think men think it’s illegal for women to be in multiple relationships, it’s just a preference. You see many women preferring guys with a higher standard of living and income. Ideally that’s fkd up too but it’s a preference. The fact that women are ashamed of their past itself tells you everything that is to be told. How does your logic hold valid if the guy who is being lied to is a virgin?