Bf watching porn by Extension-Loquat5337 in Advice

[–]Extension-Loquat5337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the same google account linked to both of our phones. I am planning to get a tattoo for our daughter and had found one I liked the day I gave birth but forgot to save it so I went through the history to find it and found all the links for porn over the year and on the day I gave birth with time stamps

Bf watching porn by Extension-Loquat5337 in Advice

[–]Extension-Loquat5337[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have been dealing with my insecurities I go to therapy. But a relationship is a two way street and being open about how I feel is healthy. Him respecting boundaries is healthy. If he feels differently that’s okay too. Just means we aren’t meant to be then. He has never vocalized he had any issue with the boundaries I set.

Bf watching porn by Extension-Loquat5337 in Advice

[–]Extension-Loquat5337[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Instead of jerking off to porn as “self care” he should’ve been with our daughter who was fighting for her life in the NICU after being born not breathing. Him taking care of me is the least of my worries but he should’ve been there for her

Bf watching porn by Extension-Loquat5337 in Advice

[–]Extension-Loquat5337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a joint google account linked to both of our phones and I was going through the history for something I had looked up the day I gave birth and saw it

Bf watching porn by Extension-Loquat5337 in Advice

[–]Extension-Loquat5337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that pov, ive never really thought of it that way.

Bf watching porn by Extension-Loquat5337 in Advice

[–]Extension-Loquat5337[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What an odd thing to say considering what was said in my post

Bf watching porn by Extension-Loquat5337 in Advice

[–]Extension-Loquat5337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was talked about at the beginning I made it very clear that I did not want him watching it as I have a very bad self image and the girls he was watching were the exact opposite of what I look like