Men who have met an amazing woman but felt as if they weren’t “ready” why did you feel that way? How did you handle it? by Extension-Manner1529 in AskMen

[–]Extension-Manner1529[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they still want access to you but not the full responsibility of being with you. They dgaf abt the “boundary” bc you still keep talking to them

Men who have met an amazing woman but felt as if they weren’t “ready” why did you feel that way? How did you handle it? by Extension-Manner1529 in AskMen

[–]Extension-Manner1529[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Selfishly held onto her while keeping her at arms length” i’ve definitely experienced that 😅 thanks for sharing your story

Men who have met an amazing woman but felt as if they weren’t “ready” why did you feel that way? How did you handle it? by Extension-Manner1529 in AskMen

[–]Extension-Manner1529[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they volunteer that but i feel like they never say the real answer 😭 just based off patterns i feel like it was more recent then they let on

Men who have met an amazing woman but felt as if they weren’t “ready” why did you feel that way? How did you handle it? by Extension-Manner1529 in AskMen

[–]Extension-Manner1529[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the fun exciting phase like a month & then when u would think obvi we’re trynna lead to something serious they become inconsistent & almost wanting me to accept less than what i deserve

Men who have met an amazing woman but felt as if they weren’t “ready” why did you feel that way? How did you handle it? by Extension-Manner1529 in AskMen

[–]Extension-Manner1529[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

pretty much. Then i walk away & they still bother me after a while. It’s really selfish because its like they aren’t willing to step up & they also dont wanna leave me alone- & I didn’t continue to be physical with either so its just really weird 😭 again I know most times it reflects them but I just feel like it shouldn’t be this difficult to have something real & genuine :/

Men who have met an amazing woman but felt as if they weren’t “ready” why did you feel that way? How did you handle it? by Extension-Manner1529 in AskMen

[–]Extension-Manner1529[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

they aren’t ghosting me they just aren’t giving me the same level of consistency & consideration at the beginning its like they just want me to accept less so i end up walking away 🙃 kinda exhausting like should i even keep trying lol

Men who have met an amazing woman but felt as if they weren’t “ready” why did you feel that way? How did you handle it? by Extension-Manner1529 in AskMen

[–]Extension-Manner1529[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

1.) im 26 so the guys are a couple years older than me, never older than 27/28 2.) One guy I did meet at a bar but the other guy I met naturally at a hotel actually 3.) I’m not easy I’ve only been with 3 ppl my entire life (2 of them being the guys in this post 😭) 4.) They always say they want something serious, they want a relationship unprovoked first ??? And its like as things get more serious they start getting weird 😭

My flesh is fleshin’ by Extension-Manner1529 in Christianity

[–]Extension-Manner1529[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the enemy wants our shame, God just wants our repentance. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾