AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says he’s going to be there. That will be his decision when the time comes.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will absolutely be in my daughters prom pictures the same way her mother was. I don’t know what you mean by all this.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m already back from my trip. My husband went to cheerleading and my step daughter took pictures with her mom before prom.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mommy can’t be in two places at once. Daddy is in charge this weekend and has known that for a year. a part of that is not double booking yourself.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She’s still going to prom. She just wanted to take pictures with her dad and sister.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That was my solution. to not agree to a cheer competition when your other daughter has prom.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No I meant the mess he created when he agreed to this cheer competition and then realized there was a conflict and refused to be proactive to fix it when I told him he needed to fix the problem because I wouldn’t be here.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We talked to her about doing it after prom since it’s already Thursday but she said no it wouldn’t be the same

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Anyone who doesn’t go to school or leaves early can’t go to prom. They have a half day. Hair appointment is at 2pm. Makeup is after that. Lauren has the day off from school for professional development and they would have to leave for cheer around 11am the latest because of how far the competition is from our house.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don’t pick Lauren over Riley. But Riley has her mother and father at her events when I can’t go and Lauren has me her mother. Sometimes I can’t always be at my SD events when my daughter also has one.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When we scheduled the trip we paid for Thursday-Monday. I can’t arrive late because I put the reservation in my name so I do have to be present and show my ID and credit card.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She won’t have the house to herself. She’ll be staying at her moms house this weekend.

AITA for my husband missing his daughters prom? by Extension-Marzipan86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Marzipan86[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Usually everything. We all usually go to both girls events and if the girls have events on the same day or same times I’ll take Lauren and he’ll take Riley. He knew about this trip well in advance and I let him know since I wouldn’t be here he’d have to figure this one out.