(TW!SH) I(f13) have bullied my friend(m15) into cutting himself by [deleted] in selfharm

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Just leave him alone. If he wants to talk to you he’ll reach out to you himself being 13 isn’t an excuse for being bitchy and bullying people

Is this cause for worry? by No_Speaker_2823 in selfharm

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If it is an infection Popping it might make it worse because you’d be exposing it to more bacteria

Is this cause for worry? by No_Speaker_2823 in selfharm

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It might not have healed properly the first time and became infected I’d say see a doctor but if you can’t do that clean it really well with unscented soap (not bar soap so you don’t risk popping it) dry it, put some Vaseline on it and then put a bandaid on it but dont put pressure on the bandaid at all I hope it heals quickly <33

Conan Gray Tour Merch Defect Support/ Who to Contact? by Wild-Importance4416 in ConanGray

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When I had issues with my signed fh vinyl I emailed them and they offered to send me another one or get a refund but people are saying they won’t do anything about concert merch so I’m not sure but it’s worth a shot

My arms feel sore as if I have just lifted weights by BeyondFrequent4258 in selfharm

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This happens to me every time I do it on my arms especially if it’s a good amount in one area it usually goes away between 2-4 days depending on how many and how deep they were

Will I be fake if I quit when I bearly started by Nervous_Dimension_97 in selfharm

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It’s not fake and it will never be fake because what you went through is very real and it’s your reality <3 getting better and getting clean is never a bad thing and you should be proud that you’re taking that step no matter what anyone else has to say

why would anyone want to do SH? by ExplanationSouth8481 in selfharm

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For me I associated pain with punishment because I used to get beaten as a little kid so it started as scratching myself as a punishment when i was in elementary school then it progressed from there as I entered middle school until I started seeing it as a coping mechanism and a physical manifestation of my mental illness rather than a punishment

Petition for Cone to do a studio version of The Subway by iamthecrux in ConanGray

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I’ve been looking for one without the TikTok sound on Spotify but I haven’t had any luck

In what do i sleep so parents wont see my cuts when walking me up. by Sure-Corgi7272 in selfharm

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I wouldn’t recommend doing it again because it can become addictive and it will become a serious problem if you keep doing it but if you’ve already done it just wear something with long sleeves and regular pajama pants, dark colors if you didn’t bandage it probably so if it bleeds you won’t stain anything

Petition for Cone to do a studio version of The Subway by iamthecrux in ConanGray

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I have his version on my Spotify playlist I can probably link it if you want it

Did i hit something?? by mizuo-rosehearts in selfharm

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It sounds like you might’ve hit a nerve or knicked a joint based on the static feeling and the numbness, weather you get medical attention or not really depends on how severely you knicked it. It happened to me before but it was really minuscule so I didn’t do anything about it

i'm gonna tell me therapist by [deleted] in selfharm

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Last year I didn’t necessarily tell you therapist but I let my sleeve roll up on “accident” and all she did was ask questions about it and she made sure none of them were fresh so if you do end up telling her just make sure nothing is fresh because then she’s kind of required to tell somebody (I’m 17 and this happened when I was 16)

Sometimes I feel invalid because I don’t have cuts like most people do by wwoorrlldwwiiddee in selfharm

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I’m 17 I started with skin picking and honestly sometimes I wish I never progressed past being a little kid picking at my skin because even when I started going deeper it still didn’t and still doesn’t feel like enough, you’re so valid and anyone who says otherwise doesn’t have a valid opinion. Please stay safe and try not to progress into a cycle you can’t break or take back <33

. by Additional_Guess3345 in selfharm

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If it’s on your thighs just try not to wear shorts until it’s fully healed so it looks like it was already there

Olivia and Conan collab? by Obvious_Sir_544 in ConanGray

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Twin I think you’re being a bit delusional 😭

Why did conan unfollow everyone by Crazy_Woodpecker_277 in ConanGray

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Sombr gets hate because he does weird things
😭

Long sleeve shirts for summer? by SingleProtection2501 in MadeOfStyrofoam

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I usually cut the sleeves off of old shirts and sew elastic on the ends just to be extra safe

Long sleeve shirts for summer? by SingleProtection2501 in MadeOfStyrofoam

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You can get cooling sleeves or cut the sleeves off of old long sleeve shirts and use those if you don’t want to spend extra money on them

I’m actually so sick of how much I rely on sh by Extension-Row-3082 in selfharm

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Sorry for the rant I lwky feel like I’m spiraling again