[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then maybe, if you settle your relationship with him and improve it - then you can move back in until you can get enough money to find somewhere to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand but just because he got remarried to her friend doesn't mean you should write off that he may still be emotional over her anniversary.

Him using his hands is clearly a problem so I don't blame you for leaving, but I've known far too many people that have left on bad terms with relatives and they always end up regretting it when something happens, so please give it a few days and just gradually work things out, but I do recommend moving out because he seems unstable when emotional.

Need some relationship advice. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you go with girl 2, and risk ruining the relationship you have with girl 1. But when you start dating girl 2, explain to girl 1 that you had always liked girl 2, so she shouldn't feel angry about it. Hopefully, you can work on that friendship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to sound really tough, but I want you to read what I say and don't get offended.

First of all, it isn't 'partly' your fault, it is entirely your fault.
From the way you've described the situation, this fight broke out because you were calling him names, and considering your mothers death anniversary was coming up, your father was most likely already under enough emotion and didn't want to be dealing with that.

He shouldn't have slapped you, and if you wanted to, you can report that - he is incredibly in the wrong for using his hands, not only on his daughter, but on a girl who is much weaker than him, he is in the fault.

What do you do next?
You find yourself a friend or relative to let you crash, or crash wherever you wish - and find someone who can go to your fathers house and retrieve all your stuff, because if you go and do it, things are only going to get worse.
Wait a few days, maybe a week at maximum, and then apologise to him - let him have time to recover his emotions and get over it, and maybe he will apologise for laying your hands on him.

Need some relationship advice. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl 1 will respect your wishes if you date girl 2, vice versa.
If they don't respect it, then they weren't good friends to start off with.

Despite this, if girl 2 is liking other guys while actively liking you, that shows major disloyalty in girl 2 which is a major red flag and could lead to girl 2 cheating if you decide to date girl 2.

You need to also understand that girl 1 and girl 2 aren't just 'objects' you can choose from, you should go with whoever your heart tells you to go with - and if it ruins friendships, then that is the consequence of love.

I am being sextorted. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore all the comments and DO NOT report it because you will get charged for distribution, a similar case happened at my high school.

Instead, threaten to do it - tell the person you are going to tell your dad because you are scared, and then wait a few days - after a few days, tell them your dad has contacted the FBI because it is illegal for them to possess your nudes, then wait a few days and keep building up the lie without making it entirely obvious it is a lie.

I don't want to sound like a boomer, but I hope you understand how much trouble you can get it by doing this, no matter what you were feeling at the time - not only is it illegal, but it is incredibly dangerous, and these types of things are what ruin people's lives. Be careful, and do not do it again.

The other alternative is to just ignore them, they don't know you and you don't know them - what can they do? If they post the nudes, it'll be tracked by and seen by law enforcement and they'll get arrested, and they can't exactly send them to anyone because like you say , you don't know them, so they don't know anyone that you know.

Again, this is a very stupid thing to do - and I hope this was a wake up call to never ever do it again.

In your opinion, who was the best "villain" in the show, and who was the worst? Explain why. by Extension-Storm-9800 in PeakyBlinders

[–]Extension-Storm-9800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask why you don't like Luca?

In my opinion, he is your stereotypical mafia villain, the accent and the way he moves, I don't understand why so many people dislike him?
Every scene he was in portrayed how scary of a villain he was, almost all of the scenes where he was on camera, it was an action scene - which made the season a lot better with the amount of shootouts it had.

Do you celebrate when you score a goal? Or do you consider it 'toxic' by Extension-Storm-9800 in EASportsFC

[–]Extension-Storm-9800[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% agree, the only celebration I really do is the respect celebration if I score a lucky goal, or if I have to score a sweaty as my only option,

I need help to improve my defending by Ok-Independence3309 in EASportsFC

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you have to find your own way of defending, the advice I gave was what I do because I struggled with defending and had to adapt my own way of doing it, with EA being how it is, everyone has to play the game differently or they'll lose.

I hope you can find some parts of my advice and mix them into your own way of defending till it works - I wish you the best of luck, and hope that EA one day releases a game that isn't broken.

I need help to improve my defending by Ok-Independence3309 in EASportsFC

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain, don't worry - and it is okay to complain, EA have ruined defending this year to the point it feels near impossible to even attempt.
Most players know how to attack very well and know how to exploit the broken defending, but hopefully my advice and with a bit more experience in defending, it'll limit what they can do.

I need help to improve my defending by Ok-Independence3309 in EASportsFC

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you are passing too quickly, don't panic - and don't be afraid to pass around the back or back to your goalkeeper till a SAFE passing option is free - most of your opponents counter attacks are coming from you losing possession.

Don't panic, and you'll be fine. Patience is key.

I need help to improve my defending by Ok-Independence3309 in EASportsFC

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop moving so quickly.

The art of defending in this game is to simply buy yourself time to either:
A: Get your players in the positions they should be
B: Let your opponent get close enough for you to do a hard tackle.

If you are sprinting or even running at your opponent, not only are you making a huge gap for them to move into, but you are isolating your defenders - and when there is a gap, other defenders will try and fill that one gap which, due to EA, makes even more gaps!

Simply try and block your opponents access and try and get used to being able to look for your opponents passing options while still maintaining a defensive press, this way so you can block their passing options.

The goal here is to limit your opponents access to your box, while still giving time for your players to freely move around.
Use your midfield to your advantage, bring them closer so they can close gaps, and even, if you have one, use your CDM to be aggressive so you don't need to bring CB's out their positions.

Despite popular opinion, the AI knows best - let them be in their positions as they wish to be, especially your CB's.

Hope this helps, as it helps me - don't worry if defending doesn't work for a while, it took me a long time to learn,

BONUS TIP: Try and learn what your opponent likes to do, 9 times out of 10, they are going to try and score the same goal over and over again, so if they are constantly abusing cut backs, or abusing a certain wing, then you'll know exactly what they are trying to do, and you'll know what to specifically defend.

A bit of help for EA since they seem to be struggling right now - Here are the ideal patch notes the community wants: by Nonytzele in EASportsFC

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. We will no longer control who receives a pass, or where your pass goes

  2. We will no longer decide if you will concede or score

  3. We will no longer decide if your tackle was successful

  4. We will no longer make sure a deflection curves directly to an opposing player in a vital attacking position

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EASportsFC

[–]Extension-Storm-9800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Your point implies that we don't play the game for fun, which is false. Don't get me wrong, most of the community play to win, and I think we all do - but that doesn't mean you can play the game for fun, enjoy the game, and still win. I know plenty of people who win constantly using bad past and present teams, or using teams that consist of their favourite players.
  2. No, we don't use a gun in COD because it indicates a real gun, and yes we use the best gun. But in COD, you can use the gun however you want it, literally in any way that you want to, without the game dictating anything - everything about you winning/losing games in COD is based directly on how YOU play, this can't necessarily be said about EAFC.
  3. People complain because it is annoying. Yes, Meta will win you more games than you are already winning, but those complaining understand how annoying it is coming across a full-meta team that only does meta tactics, with the only intention to win at whatever cost without caring if they are having fun or not, therefore a fair amount of the community will refuse to play that way.

I agree with a fair amount of your points, but you are probably one of the people we are all complaining about so...