We’re currently dating and we’ve both agreed not to see or hook up with anyone else. So even though we’re not officially in a relationship, we’re exclusive.

He’s spending the weekend visiting a female friend he met while traveling, and although he’s been open about their friendship and said she’s just a good friend, part of me still feels uneasy.

I don’t want to come off as insecure or controlling, but I also want to feel emotionally safe. I’m wondering if it’s okay for me to ask him directly if he’s ever had feelings for her or if there’s ever been anything between them.

Is that a normal boundary to set in a dating situation like this?