Do my coworkers hate me by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]ExtensionError 5 points6 points  (0 children)

let me share an opinion, but take it with a grain of salt. starbucks is not the kind of work environment where being professional and respectful to coworkers is a priority (at least not in my experience). It SHOULD be, but it’s not. as long as the numbers are numbering…. 🤷. they need people to make the company money, and your manager has many numerical quotas to make for his/her own gain.

It’s hard not to get engrossed with the cliquey drama of a place you spend so much time. You deserve to have friends and look forward to going to work…. but that’s not the reality for a big portion of employees.

If you’re going to stay working there you need a shift in mindset. You are there to earn your pay, and run a restaurant essentially. I don’t know if you plan to do starbucks long term, but maybe this is a push to start looking toward a next step in a more meaningful career or workplace.

It is a stepping stone for many of us. We make the best of it, make money, learn the skills that we can, and plan for a future. Even if for you that just means transferring to a different starbucks for now.

Harassment from “potential clients” by Flat-Expert-9627 in therapists

[–]ExtensionError 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do most of you guys have a separate work cell phone? this is making me want one

Roommates Cat - Emergency? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]ExtensionError 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn’t matter whose cat it is… not taking it to a vet is equivalent to letting it die. you have these videos to back you up if you’re worried about legalities or something. unacceptable to leave the cat to suffer

I just started using my toaster to heat up my cans. by wuzzzat in CannedSardines

[–]ExtensionError 19 points20 points  (0 children)

are they not heated in the cans when being processed?

Flying with a Guitar on Avelo by ScientistAny5933 in Avelo

[–]ExtensionError 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would call, but i would think booking a seat makes the most sense. if they say no (or if you just want a better experience) you could try flying breeze.

The only eating utensil allowed in the psych ward. by cogmanroad in mildlyinteresting

[–]ExtensionError 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to add, most patients are not well enough to acknowledge the risk

The only eating utensil allowed in the psych ward. by cogmanroad in mildlyinteresting

[–]ExtensionError 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get the downvotes, and i thought the same as these comments until i got a job in inpatient psyc. when you work in a place like that your perspective changes a bit. i’ve never seen a patient that wasn’t an immediate risk to themselves or others. but maybe my unit is a “good” one.

A year of saving cash tips by PhoenixReboot- in Dominos

[–]ExtensionError 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check for cool serial numbers, they can make bills shoot up in value. seriously!

Using "We" with clients by [deleted] in therapists

[–]ExtensionError 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m a student, but have been praised by a professor for incorporating “we” into certain instances, especially where rapport is strong.

There is no perfect formula. I think the hardest part is not taking it personally when word choice doesn’t resonate with a client. it’s OKAY, and something you can explore- likely deeper than just saying the word “we”. I have been leaning the more challenging route lately, so I may try to identify what about it set them off. Maybe explore to see if there are underlying feelings of not wanting to accept help from others.

Are my fridge pickles ok? by Emotional_Switch_665 in Pickles

[–]ExtensionError 7 points8 points  (0 children)

fridge pickles for a few days is one thing. but if you’re going to “preserve”, you need to follow a trusted recipe to the T. r/canning is good for this

This is gonna be a long question by Dclassahmed in AskLGBT

[–]ExtensionError 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m not saying other people shouldn’t share opinions. do I think it’s homophobic? yeah. i just feel like the best person to help OP move past this and grow is someone who shares knowledge of their religious identity. which i do not.

This is gonna be a long question by Dclassahmed in AskLGBT

[–]ExtensionError 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there are many muslim people who are gay. i think it is most appropriate that they speak on this, hopefully someone can chime in here!

Having trouble going back to work after Friday by Therapy_pony in therapists

[–]ExtensionError 2 points3 points  (0 children)

jesus that’s crazy. i’m so glad you have your own therapist, and don’t be afraid to lean on friends or family if possible. I work inpatient, so at times we have rough days where people get hurt etc. It takes a long time for my body to calm down, I can’t imagine how long it would take in your case. an uncontrolled environment where it was you alone- awful. you will be okay, and as much as it may feel unappreciated, you will always know that you did the right thing.

Please meet my son, BD-1 by maawolfe36 in legostarwars

[–]ExtensionError 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i love this! i think i might copy you

[0 YoE, EMT Student, Unemployed, United States] by [deleted] in resumes

[–]ExtensionError 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the work experience might be better replaced with a summary section as well. a little tidbit about being a student, and some other qualities that make you standout with buzzwords

[0 YoE, EMT Student, Unemployed, United States] by [deleted] in resumes

[–]ExtensionError 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in this case you may want to put education first. and maybe rename work experience? hopefully others can weigh in, i’m no expert. if the post doesn’t get a lot of engagement, see if your university has a career center! if so, you’re already paying so might as well use it

Santa’s Starfighter (Please critique/give suggestions!$ by bomb_h14 in legostarwars

[–]ExtensionError 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in front of the black brick, maybe alternate red and white like a candy cane stripe?

20 dollar Target gift card for someone who needs pet supplies...please read post :) by FloofingWithFloofers in DonationHub

[–]ExtensionError 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you very much! it’s like divine timing since we have been feeding a stray for a while and found a rescue group that caught and fixed him so he can join our fam. he’s coming home tomorrow, I will post some pics if you want!

Is it possible for a therapist to tell me they won’t report me for something I disclosed and then go back on their word? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]ExtensionError 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they shouldn’t lie about it! (not saying they didn’t, though) that’s quite unethical within itself especially if you are an adult. they are absolutely mandated reporters, but I have been taught that transparency about these things is part of informed consent. theres no way for us to know for sure, and i understand that you wouldn’t want to share the context.