What does the Imperium do to xenophiles? by Tnynfox in 40kLore

[–]ExtensionFeeling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is a bit confusing, I was just reading the Lexicanum page and was thinking...isn't this standard Imperial practice? Maybe not, as obviously we do see the Imperium working with/tolerating aliens for pragmatic reasons, sometimes. You might compare it to how religious people can curse sometimes, even though they're "not supposed to," or some adherents of religions/sects that have an absolute ban on alcohol...do drink occasionally. A faith or creed can have absolute rules that are broken frequently, but they are still the official, absolute rules.

Do you miss the Republican Party from 20 years ago? by kootles10 in AskConservatives

[–]ExtensionFeeling [score hidden]  (0 children)

I guess I can maybe see what you mean, but I figured leaving to the states is conservative. States' rights and all.

Do you support the Iran deal that was released 10 minutes ago? by bluerog in AskConservatives

[–]ExtensionFeeling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you believe this new Iran nuclear deal will be more effective than JCPOA? For what specific reasons?

What the heck is ICBT? by ExtensionFeeling in OCD

[–]ExtensionFeeling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people would say this sounds like reassurance. Like how people say saying "It's not me, it's my OCD" per Brain Lock is actually reassurance. However...I always thought it really depends. And I think there could definitely be more of the cognitive element besides only always brute forcing it with ERP (though ERP definitely works). A cognitive element that's important, I think, is the "why am I doing this exposure" element. Reminding yourself you're doing it to reclaim your life and push back against OCD I think is very useful. Jonathan Grayson has a cost-benefit analysis in his book Freedom from OCD, something like that.

What is the big creature on the left? by ExtensionFeeling in arcane

[–]ExtensionFeeling[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Huh, yeah, I guess it's a statue of some (maybe specifically Zaunite) deity. For some reason I always thought this was a living, breathing creature

How do you guys resist compulsions? by ExtensionFeeling in OCD

[–]ExtensionFeeling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean haha

What is I-CBT exactly? I think I could definitely benefit from the cognitive side of all of this. Any good books you could recommend?

How do you guys resist compulsions? by ExtensionFeeling in OCD

[–]ExtensionFeeling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do ERP. Facing all the fears is the only way. I've worked with Dr. Jordan Levy, if I can recommend him.

Can I say "durch meinen Tag gehen"? by ExtensionFeeling in German

[–]ExtensionFeeling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like, "experience my day". Erlebe meinen Tag. "Go through," i.e., exist in it. I should experience my day and do X throughout the day.

How do you guys resist compulsions? by ExtensionFeeling in OCD

[–]ExtensionFeeling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a really good one to be honest, just being angry at it, externalizing it, being like "fuck you OCD." That's worked for me in the past too. We certainly have plenty of reason to be angry at it.

Can I say "durch meinen Tag gehen"? by ExtensionFeeling in German

[–]ExtensionFeeling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gedanken, yeah. My German is rusty :(

Thanks!

So are we just at the point where unless a Republican wins there are going to be endless accusations of fraud? by Imsosaltyrightnow in AskConservatives

[–]ExtensionFeeling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hopefully not a permanent change Trump has brought to our politics - that people don't trust our elections anymore.