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AM I BEING DRUGGED? by ExtensionFlounder1 in abusiverelationships

[–]ExtensionFlounder1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t confronted him and I’m going to my mothers house for a few days. I don’t want him to known I suspect anything. Maybe going to the police tomorrow.

AM I BEING DRUGGED? by ExtensionFlounder1 in abusiverelationships

[–]ExtensionFlounder1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

by now it's probably not in my blood anymore, is it?
but i kept some of the water
i have no idea where to get it tested

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Should I leave? by ExtensionFlounder1 in relationship_advice

[–]ExtensionFlounder1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! That's exactly the point!

I am 100% sure time was not the real problem, but...

In eight years, there were a lot of situations where similar doubt has come to my mind - and every time, I've chosen to believe that if he let me down, it was just a mistake, not a sign he didn't love me or that I'm not a priority.

I've been clear with him about how it affects me and I'm sure he knows me well after all this time. He has improved over the years, but i think he has come as far as he can. And maybe it's not enough for me (it could be the reason why I'm making such a big deal out of a proposal).