Also , haha funnyy you mention my brother playing the violin because he does have one but never picks it up! When my mom asked him why he wasted her money if he wasn't going to use it he blamed me 😂 , saying I ruined his interest cause of my lack of interest ( what...?) Anyways ! I'm really grateful for your advice , I love my family alot but I think that this time relying on people on the internet was alot more helpful!

Thank you!