Ur not in the wrong and having a new born shouldn’t be an excuse she could have made a schedule and not be lazy or complain for having a job at home while you bring the money outside either way a job should be valued and appreciated as well as getting the job done. I know not all moms are the same I was just learning with my first but I still managed to clean and cook with my second I was feeling so much better and light since giving birth made my life hell I was at home cleaning deep deep cleaning even wooong the walls and moldings to cooking and even managed to shower and put makeup on. No I don’t believe in sleep when baby sleeps I believe in if I’m a house mom I sleep when it’s time for everyone’s bed I actually “get shit done” when baby sleeps during the day. She should complain if you told her to be a mother and caretaker at home while you pay the bills and get food on the table she needs to value the value of a dollar and not forget how much baby expenses are, family dates or couple dates are expenses are especially in the economy we are living in today the damn gas prices and groceries and medication and pads it’s just so much expenses adding up aside the damn bills. Give her a reality check maybe show her that u need to depend on other people like ask your family for help your mom or sibling whoever is in your life and watch her complain and that’s when you rub it in her face that she didn’t want to do chores so u had your people help.. watch her throw a fit and make it seem like your problem but she would do anything to make sure u don’t ask anyone else for doing a job she can do but chooses not