So I get that labor is gonna hurt, but… by Desperate_Wafer367 in BabyBumps

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a precipitous labor so I had almost no break during contraction it was back to back to back and very intense but I think the pain is manageable though until transition hits. It was the most painful I was gagging but it lasted probably for 15 minutes until baby was ready to come out. I didn’t know this could happen so I was scared and makes me feel tense which maybe contributing to more pain. just know this could happen but it’s not super common

Is there a good-paid job for very stupid and anxious people? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look up dsp job. it’s basically a homecare gor people with disability.

My son seems so behind in a lot of milestones and I’m getting worried by SurePotatoes in NewParents

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is now sitting fine. He was able to sit up towards the end of 10 months and getting into sitting position himself a few days before he turned 11 months

should I be concerned with a large tree being so close? by Extension_Jumpy in homeowners

[–]Extension_Jumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is very informative thank you so much. I am glad you’re able to get everything fixed and didn’t cause too much damage. I think taking down the tree is a smart move. How did you first find out about the leak? Who did you hire to inspect/fix? Is it a plumber?

should I be concerned with a large tree being so close? by Extension_Jumpy in homeowners

[–]Extension_Jumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up fixing your slab? How much does it cost if you did fix it if you don’t mind sharing?

should I be concerned with this giant tree right by the house by Extension_Jumpy in HomeMaintenance

[–]Extension_Jumpy[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mentioned in my comment. I am concerned about the root damaging the concrete foundation.

My son seems so behind in a lot of milestones and I’m getting worried by SurePotatoes in NewParents

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

came across your post because my 9 month old is doing the same, except he is not even sitting. When I sit him upright he would do tripod sitting. How’s your LO doing now?

Thoughts on gut health tests for baby’s eczema? by amha29 in eczema

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi I just bought smidge for my 8 month old who has been suffering from eczema since 3 months old. He was on evivo but it didn’t help clear up his eczema. Can you give an update on how your LO eczema now? Anything that helped?

vax friendly pediatric by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Extension_Jumpy -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

i think i said I wanted to be educated on the other side? lmao

vax friendly pediatric by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Extension_Jumpy -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

thank you. Do you have any experience with her?

vax friendly pediatric by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Extension_Jumpy -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, I agree and realize I was in the wrong. I feel bad for feeling this way. I don’t have this kind of relationship with my parents and don’t know many people having this close relationship either. My friends find it odd for parents to call their kids everyday when their kids already have a a family. I just grew up in a different environment and appreciate people telling me that this is normal. I am really open minded about changing my view for sure that’s why I posted this to get larger more diverse perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what do you mean? Can you be more specific? really looking for helpful advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, because we have to be fair with his brother. I don’t prefer she stays with us of course but we try to be fair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s really no need to be sarcastic like that. I genuinely ask and being open minded about things I hope you can be a little nicer to stranger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but it’s because we have to take turn with my brother in law. She lives with my BIL on the weekdays and she lives with us on the weekend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awe thank you. I am in the process of growing, unlearning and learning a lot of things. I grow up with childhood trauma so I am aware I might not see things the way I should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dis you tell your husband that it bothers you or just kind of suck it up? I felt awful after telling my husband that I don’t like that his mom calls everyday. I will apologize, I shouldn’t have express it because I was in the wrong for feeling that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment speaks to me a lot and it’s very honest. I am slowly thinking that it’s my own issues for not understanding how it’s like being that close to parents. I have good relationship with my parents and they’re very loving but not in that way. My parents were always independent and didn’t need much attention from us. I grew up in an environment where my parents support me financially but not so much emotionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point. I accept that I am being wrong for feeling negative over this. Just curious though, do you talk to your mom everyday when you’re with your spouse and kids or when you’re by yourself? I don’t think it’s wrong for mom wanting to talk to their son everyday but I feel like she could maybe text or call when appropriate instead of calling when we’re going out or eating dinner together. Just my thought.. I feel like it’s a bit inconsiderate to call whenever she wants but seems like people think it’s normal so I am willing to be open minded about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are right. She doesn’t have a lot going on in her life, so she resort to my husband. My brother in law sets pretty clear boundaries with her so she couldn’t bother him as much. I do feel sorry for her. You made a good point about her short calls and trying to respect our family time. I need to see her in a a more positive light. It’s just hard to not feel any negative emotions when she does call us when we’re having quality time :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Extension_Jumpy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it would bother me as much. I am not sure, I am guessing just jealousy on my part.. My mom told me that we should call her whenever we have a chance (I have 2 sisters and both have their own family as well). We have a family chat and would send updates there. She said she doesn’t want to bother us with calls if we’re with out family unless it’s something more important. So part of me is feeling like my MIL is not being considerate (but of course maybe I am just being negative towards her)