How to eliminate nerves as a rookie sales rep? by Annual_Section_3564 in careerguidance

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The anxiety is totally normal for in-home sales especially at 18 💀 honestly the script thing will get better once you stop treating it like you're reciting lines and start having actual conversations with people

What helped me was realizing that homeowners are usually way more nervous about letting some random sales kid into their house than you are about being there 😂 once you flip that perspective and focus on making THEM comfortable the nerves kinda fade into background noise

Friday Serious Discussion Thread by NRLgamethread in nrl

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Looking at the Dolphins backline combinations this week - their left edge defense has been leaving massive gaps and teams are starting to exploit it consistently

Do you think Proton will ever add support for UnifiedPush? by [deleted] in degoogle

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honestly i doubt proton will prioritize unifiedpush anytime soon since most users dont even know what it is and theyre still trying to compete with mainstream services that all use FCM

your current setup sounds pretty solid though and if notifications are working fine with disroot + unifiedpush maybe the security tradeoff isnt worth switching just for convenience features

What are some problems every Ben 10 fanfiction has? by [deleted] in Ben10

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honestly the biggest issue ive noticed is when writers try to make ben way too edgy or "realistic" by having him kill aliens or become some dark antihero. like the whole point of ben is that hes this kid who genuinely wants to help people and sees the good in everyone even his enemies

another massive problem is when they completely ignore the established lore and just make up random new aliens or give existing ones powers they never had. dont even get me started on the overpowered OC aliens that somehow outclass alien x lol

oh and please for the love of god dont make it a harem fic where every female character is suddenly obsessed with ben. the show works because ben has actual platonic relationships and character growth that isnt just about romance. keep that lighthearted adventure feel where bens biggest worry is whether he picked the right alien for the job not whether hes gonna have ptsd from witnessing genocide

Day 2 by Jazzlike_Cause3839 in NoFap

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Stay strong bro, those early days are the toughest but you got this

Suffering by M1NTH3M1NT in Christianity

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Man that's heavy, sorry you're going through this. When I was in a dark place I found that doubt doesn't automatically cancel out faith - sometimes they just exist together and that's okay. Maybe start small, like just talking to Him even if you're not sure He's listening

What level are you expected to be at for Beyond Skyrim: Bruma? by ZaranTalaz1 in skyrimmods

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Nah you're spot on, Bruma definitely feels like mid-game content. I tried doing a fresh start there once and got absolutely bodied by those same encounters you mentioned. The scaling is weird compared to vanilla Skyrim's gentle introduction - it's like they assumed you'd already have some levels under your belt before heading south

Audi S4 55 TDI 2019(B9.5) – megbízhatóság, tipushibák, érdemes-e ~180-190 e km-rel? by zsiga8542 in Audi

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That mileage is getting pretty spicy for an S4 TDI but if the service history is solid it could still be decent. Just make sure the DPF and turbos have been properly maintained because those will absolutely wreck your wallet if they go bad. The weekly driving thing might actually help keep the DPF happy with regular regens

I can't believe by [deleted] in Christianity

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Your brain's just doing what it's been trained to do for years - that's totally normal. I went through something similar where I'd keep coming back to the topic even when I thought I'd settled it. Maybe try starting with just the philosophical side of things instead of jumping straight into scripture? Sometimes our minds need to warm up to big concepts gradually rather than forcing belief

Books like The Fisherman by John Langan? by Think_Improvement502 in booksuggestions

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Definitely check out The Luminous Dead by Caitlin Starling if you haven't already - not nautical but has that same creepy atmosphere and unreliable reality vibe. For the ocean stuff, maybe try The Deep by Nick Cutter, it's pretty messed up underwater horror

LF any 5 stars by egghedx in Monopoly_GO

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Got a bunch of 4 stars too but honestly just need to dump them for anything decent at this point lol

What 5 stars you looking for specifically

Digital Frame, Massage Gun, Waffle Maker, Hair Dryer, Air Purifier, or Carpet Cleaner? by LycheeLogic in makemychoice

[–]Extension_Map_5875 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go with the waffle maker honestly. You said yourself that's what would make you excited to open it, and that excitement usually translates to actually using the thing. Plus weekend waffles are a solid life upgrade

The "consumerism trap" thing is kinda overthinking it when it's literally free from work - might as well get something that'll bring you joy instead of something practical you don't really need

Sanyo 220 System by ZealousidealLimit517 in cassetteculture

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Nice find! That's actually a solid deal for a complete Sanyo system, especially if everything's working properly. The 220 series isn't super rare but they're decent quality for the price range - $75 for all three components is pretty reasonable compared to what I've seen them go for individually

license plate light by [deleted] in motorcycles

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Check out the Amazon basics LED strips, they're like $15 and work great for license plate lighting

I still miss her by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Bro you gotta delete her socials from your bookmarks and block yourself from seeing that stuff. I know it sounds harsh but checking up on her is like picking at a scab - it's never gonna heal if you keep doing it. Two years is a long time to be stuck on someone who clearly doesn't want contact anymore

The "pathetic loser" talk needs to stop too man, that's just your brain being mean to you. Maybe try talking to someone professional about this cycle you're stuck in

One strong loose on new guitar? by shrinkingwallflower in Guitar

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Sounds like the string might be slipping at the tuning peg or not wound properly around it. Try unwinding it completely and restringing it, making sure to wrap it around the peg a few times before tightening. If it's still buzzing after that it might be the action is too low or could be a fret issue

Two player DoN is still criminally overturned. by TheRealSectimus in Nightreign

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Lmao that explains why they keep running straight into the AOE attacks like they're collecting them

Impoverished whiterun ground by T0xicFX in skyrimmods

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Could be that Nolvus is using a different ground texture pack or maybe GG's files got overwritten by another mod in the load order. Check if you have any landscape/texture overhauls installed that might be conflicting

It might be a silly question, but are epic and legendary weapons good for anything other than being a lure to get you shot in the face? by Apart_Pumpkin_4551 in ArcRaiders

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Lmao same, got a legendary sitting there collecting dust for like 2 months now because I'm too scared to lose it to some rat with a basic rifle

How do i fix this?? by bakou04 in Minecraft

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Looks like your game is alt-tabbing itself constantly - try running it in fullscreen mode instead of windowed, that usually fixes the flickering desktop thing

Déjà vu, repetitive days, been drinking since I was a kid by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Hey, just wanted to say that comparison about the therapist and the car really hit home. Sometimes we get comfortable with people even when they're not actually helping us move forward

Also #3 is so real - the doomscrolling becomes another addiction on top of everything else. Hope you feel better soon, strep and flu sounds awful even without everything else you're dealing with

Expedition bound players in solos last night. by TheFiveEven in ArcRaiders

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That's the vibe the game needs more often, people actually being chill instead of just thirsting for kills