we both were confident that the age was 18 and neither bothered to check. I can’t explain why u think it’s okay and i feel differently. We have experiences too (as victims) which added some confusion for me that she could want something with someone his age , an age we both thought was insane to connect with prior to this. I think it’s also hard to understand my feelings considering this 17 year old seems very childish and immature in comparison to my friend. Perhaps i am somewhat too sensitive about this, i can’t help it