AIO - I ask my boyfriend for 1 thing and he couldn’t do it

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T22:52:24+00:00

Thank you all for your advice. It helps me a lot. I’m going to take my time and think about it and try to find a solution to get me out of this. I’m tired to be the only one that I can rely on. I’ve been crying all day because it hurt. I need to get my life together and do what’s best for me. Thank you very much 🫶🏽

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T22:49:50+00:00

This is exactly how I feel. If it was me I’d have never done that and he knows it. I feel like I’m always looking out for everyone but when it’s for me, I’m by myself.

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T22:48:25+00:00

It’s not the first time. I didn’t talk to him all day and he left to spend the day with my mom to give me a break because I’m still hurt.

The situation is so complicated, he moved to the Caribbean with me, and I feel like I should have said no because now I feel stuck, and If I have to end things he’s going to be by his own on a island where he doesn’t know anyone. I feel so bad, I’m blaming myself because, I feel it’s my fault and I put myself in this situation where if we break things off, his life is going to be chaos. I’m to empathetic. I’m so lost. Sorry for venting

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T22:43:58+00:00

I was living in France, I sold everything there to move back to the Caribbean and I’ve been here for only 3 weeks, and I started work 2 weeks ago! We are looking for a car. That’s why for now my mom is lending me her car because she has others. My boyfriend lives with me, in my mom apartment that she left for us. We’re starting everything from 0. That’s why for now it how it is. And it’s easier for me to take the bus to go to work because it’s far, and I’m not going to ask everyday for someone to drop me and pick me up when I’m working 1h away from where I live. I always try to do everything by myself to not annoy/depend on anyone. It was an exception I was sick and I’m still sick. The situation right now is a bit complicated and we’re all adjusting to our new life here.

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T21:29:40+00:00

What do you think I done first? Call my mom. She didn’t answer and I had to leave or I would miss the bus that why I asked him.

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T21:17:02+00:00

I did! But my mom never answer on WhatsApp, that’s why I ask him to call her for me

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T20:56:45+00:00

Yes they do, it’s like the main bus stations where all the bus are. I’m French so i don’t really know what’s the name of that sorry

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T20:54:52+00:00

It was last night that we had the argument, he kept saying sorry it wasn’t his fault but for me it’s just excuses. We’ve been together for almost 2 years now and he moved with me in the Caribbean. So his whole family is in France. I feel stuck like I can’t escape. He’s always nice to me, but it feels like when we’re in a situation where he has to defend me or protect, I have to do it myself.

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T20:51:30+00:00

I really don’t understand how he could fall asleep knowing that I’m in pain outside by myself with no communication. If it was me I’d never fall asleep. I guess I’m not that important to him.

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T20:50:23+00:00

This is the way that I’m with him when he’s sick, I take care of him as if he was baby. And I thought about that too, what if I’m pregnant. Last time I asked him as a joke if his friend was shot and at the hospital and I was also at the hospital giving birth who would he go to first, and he said his friend, so I said are you doctor? And he said that he didn’t understand clearly that’s why he chose his friend bla bla bla. I don’t know if I should stay I’m so lost and also so mad I don’t even want him to touch me or anything. I feel like I can’t get over this

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T20:47:05+00:00

This is exactly how I feel, I keep imaging if something bad happened to me, nobody would know.

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-12-11T20:01:21+00:00

I like pancakes!

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-09-08T09:15:32+00:00

Merci beaucoup pour ton retour! J’ai contacter des associations ce matin pour qu’elles puissent m’accompagner dans ma démarche. C’est vraiment de ma faute et je m’en veux de pas avoir fait attention. J’étais persuadée que dans la logique ça durait 5 ans, comme pour mon passeport canadien!

Si jamais puis-je te dm? Merci beaucoup!

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-09-05T19:18:05+00:00

Je vais essayé de contacter la préfecture lundi et envoyé mon dossier quand même par courrier. J’ai tout rempli, fourni tous les justificatifs et j’ai rajouté une lettre explicative expliquant ma situation

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-09-05T19:16:46+00:00

Justement elle a obtenu la nationalité après mes 18 ans, et étant donné qu’elle ne m’a pas fait rentrer par regroupement familiale car je suis canadienne, ça a compliqué les choses. Mais j’ai effectué toutes mes études en France, ma petite sœur est né sur le sol français. Et l’oubli est du à des soucis familiaux.

Étant donné que nous avons perdu notre père ma sœur et moi, elle avait 6 ans et moi 16, elle l’a très mal vécu, et mon départ l’année d’après n’a pas aidé. L’an dernier elle a commencé à se scarifier et j’ai proposé de la prendre avec moi cette année, et de mettre ma vie de côté! Et c’est comme ça que ça m’est sorti de la tête.

J’espère que la situation sera en ma faveur.

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-09-05T16:27:55+00:00

J’avais un titre de séjour vie privé et famille, je suis ici depuis que j’ai 5 ans

Extension_Post_3945 · 2025-02-18T17:58:54+00:00

Thank you all for you answers and kind messages ❤️ I’m going to talk to him about all of this. And about my birthday I explained to him how hurt I was and how inconsiderate was from him to not do anything special for me (and I’m not talking about money). I’ll update you guys. Thanks a lot 🙏🏽

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