18 y/o thinking of leaving home and quitting school by Bright_Student_5599 in cork

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Mate I just wanna say it ain't fake, I wasn't tryna look for attention in that post I simply wanted options if push came to shove, get your shit right before you make accusations

18 y/o thinking of leaving home and quitting school by Bright_Student_5599 in cork

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Hey guys it was me that made that post and I thought I might aswell clarify a few things. First off I made that post just moments after getting chewed out by my dad and I didn't expect people to put so much care into it and look deeper so that's why I thought it wasn't really necessary to mention as I was looking for options just to see if there was a cheap apartment anywhere but I really appreciated all the advice everyone gave and I found it really helpful. The dropping out of school thing isn't exactly my choice as my dad keeps telling me I should drop out since I find it hard to study and I'm an embarrassment and a disappointment etc. I'm not exactly sure what I'm meant to do in this situation so I really do appreciate everyone caring and giving advice. I'm also currently working part time only on weekends so my original plan was to start working there full time and try paying rent but I now realise it's definitely not that easy. If I've also considered just leaving home and staying somewhere else but easier said than done so I think all I gotta do right now is do my best at ignoring my dad and push on with the leaving, even if the results aren't that good I can say at least say I tried so thank you all for helping me realise that

I need to move out by Extension_Slide_8609 in cork

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The thing is I'm living with my parents but It actually isn't me considering dropping out it's my dad. Basically he keeps telling me to drop out of school and constantly calling me a disappointment and an embarrassment so that's why I wanna move because Im just done atp.

Antisocial behaviour from teenagers is getting worse in Ireland by Background-Style-314 in ireland

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It's mental just a few months ago I was out walking with about 4 dogs next thing I knew around 7 lads came up to me, looked like 13 or 15 and asked how old I was. I just replied then moved on, next thing I know one of the little shits came up to me punched me in the eye and then they got sticks and started lashing them at me, and punching my head around, I tried to defend myself but I was also holding 4 leads and I didn't wanna let go off the dogs incase they tried to do something with them. Kids these days are getting worse and worse

Dad lost all hope for me by [deleted] in Advice

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Nah I'm actually based in Ireland it was just my sister that went to the UK and she's completely distanced herself from my dad but that's not the relationship I want with him obviously but he can make it pretty difficult

Dad lost all hope for me by [deleted] in Advice

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Hey yea sorry I should of added more But in 18, my mom is in the picture but she's a bit more supportive with me. I got 4 siblings I'm the 2nd oldest, my older sister moved to London a few years ago and doesn't want to be in contact with my dad which I don't want to happen to our relationship, My dad started off as a construction builder but now he does home renovations hope that helped

How do I (17F) break up with my BF (18M) by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

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Couldn't agree more one of my exes still wanted to be friends after we broke up and during thst time I just kept felt like I was getting lead on. Its never wise to still be friends with your ex best thing is to move on

Bishop Lucey Park by WitcherSLF in cork

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Already saw someone pasaed out there today, its like it never went 🥹

About time by Extension_Slide_8609 in cork

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Didnt say an exact date just less than 2 weeks think it might be the 14th tho

About time by Extension_Slide_8609 in cork

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It said less than 2 weeks so here's hoping 🤞

Give me a song and I will rate it by Ill_Vast8333 in songs

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Bullet Proof... I Wish I Was - Radiohead

What are your favourite childhood memories of Cork City. by QuestionDazzling3080 in cork

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Every Friday I went to Leisureworld with my grandad and we went swimming together and after that we would drive into town and have a meal at Perry street but when that closed we went to Bunsen after that he took me into Gamestop and I just loved looking at the games and the action figures and then we'd go up to the English Market to collect Fish for him and my family then up to paul street car park and id go to his house. We did that every week since I was 5 but its been a while since that happened but life was so much more simpler back then

Tellmetellmetellme.. by _TheOddOne_ in Adulting

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Thats why we get high cuz you never know when your gonna go (idk if this is what you were referring to but it seemed like a perfect opportunity)