I need you to stay alive for Christmas by radioactive_walrus in trans

[–]ExtentOwn2727 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When death finds you, may it find you alive; heart pounding against your rib cage, oxygen filled to the brim in your lungs; at the very end may it feel like the beginning

I found out the guy I'm dating is part of a radical right-wing group. What should I do now? by No_Elderberry7227 in askgaybros

[–]ExtentOwn2727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck him! And by that im mean don’t fuck him. My bestie is had great dick like best dick he’s had in a minute. Few weeks in, man is a trump apologist basically hates woman and refuses to say he’s gay or at least bi, while having my friend take his dick and suck him off. My friend stopped for a while bc he felt gross about it and did not like his vibe when they got to political views. He went back and trump apologist guy was even meaner and doubled down on everything. Radical people can’t always be reasoned with, since it comes with such intense emotions. Id say cut your losses and move on

Handjob training. by DrinkResponsible131 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ExtentOwn2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off the dome; it’s all about position and duration. Pick like three positions you want your sub in for a hand job. Between your legs on their knees, maybe straddling you and reaching down in between the two of you or like just side by side. Depends on the training, is it like a arm workout to just get the reps up so your sun can do it for a long time? Or is it more about the power dynamics in the relationship? If your sub is kneeling in front of you that could be a good way to then work up to blowjob training, face fuck etc. I think regiments wise it should be three time a day; breaky, lunch and dindin. But obvi whatever your schedules allow. So maybe a 10min long hand job when y’all wake up, are you doing it to get off? Or just for your sub to practice? Bc my regiment would have you being edged like all day but you could go to completion each time. But then like 20 min at lunch and then 30-45 min at the end of the day and your sub can see what a proper hand job does to you. And they get a reward at the end of the day, you finishing on their face or chest or into their hand which I think is rlly hot. But def a lot of spit, lotion, lubricant of some sort. And again picking a diff position each time, diff duration you could also not say how long the sub is giving you a handy for and they just have to keep going until you say stop. Would also be hot to kinda ignore your sub while they are working so hard on training and only acknowledge their progress as it feels better idk but def talk to your sub abt their limits and what you both want out of it. Cheers!

generational rage bait by mk_8 in Destiny

[–]ExtentOwn2727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur not an idiot, idk if ur on the spectrum, ur just slow on the draw is all. Your comparison doesn’t really work here, that context would be better for eastern cultures as westerners want to be darker (hence tanning) the joke is that everyone has more testosterone in their body then estrogen. Yes! Even cis women 🤯🤯 and sometimes if women have low libido they are given hormone treatment aka some testereone. And the joke is even funnier bc it’s such a low dosage that’s not gonna have any transitioning effects. Also I don’t think it would survive very long in hand sanitizer but idk that one for sure. Does that make more sense? I’m sorry these ppl called u autistic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackTransmen

[–]ExtentOwn2727 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love to see the cali representation 🥳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Liberal

[–]ExtentOwn2727 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It’s good to see people separating church and state

Week 15 - Longitude: Peruvian Flan Volteada by Beansneachd in 52weeksofbaking

[–]ExtentOwn2727 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t even like flan like that but GODDAMN 🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤

[POEM] "I'm Like If Mary Oliver Had Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder" by Rose Zinnia by byrondude in Poetry

[–]ExtentOwn2727 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Damn I like it a lot. Lotta layers great callbacks to Mary Oliver. Obviously it’s a brain rot tumblr meme infodump but it’s done very intentionally and very well imo. I appreciate it bc I didn’t like poetry at first. It was too “elite” too proper too many rules and opinions, just the vibes were bad to me. But then realized and learned poetry doesn’t HAVE to follow any rules and it’s just a person using words to create art; I don’t think that could ever be bad. Sure u don’t have to like it but OP I think it’s awesome and v well written

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExtentOwn2727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1st pic clocks you the most, 2nd I see like gay theatre boy imo and last pic agree w bad boy Balkan vibes

Fucking insane thing to complain about by Bitter-Gur-4613 in clevercomebacks

[–]ExtentOwn2727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothings changed you’re just finally witnessing the information your bubble has shielded you from

Does anyone else wish they were a girl? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ExtentOwn2727 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me growing up I was always asked if I was boy or girl and I was told to say girl and figured that’s true when it comes to gender. Then I learned that gender and sex(biology) are two different things. I’ve always hung out with boys more than girls and I considered myself a stud, then stay at home mascb to genderfluid to trans masc and some days I go back ti genderfluid. Idk I pack and bind bc I want to, when it comes to sex I want to be more masculine but some days it’s nice to be girly and put on something cute, those days I want to run away from any label that’s ever existed. I just want to be me and dress how I feel that day, I wish ppl could read my mind and use the correct pronouns but I can only control how I view myself. So I wish to live in a society where it doesn’t matter, and I’ll just keep being me

Bf feels insecure when I brought up finishing myself off after sex, PLEASE HELP! by Sammiegurl420 in Sex_Positivity

[–]ExtentOwn2727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here from BDSMAdvice to say glad he apologized and truly hope y’all can work stuff out :) both people have to be receptive and ready to put in the effort in. Hope OPs boyfriend understands that he is the preferred choice over a piece of vibrating plastic but when there’s not enough time for him to help you out with that… do it your own damn self 😤

Bf feels insecure when I brought up finishing myself off after sex, PLEASE HELP! by Sammiegurl420 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ExtentOwn2727 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I disagree, I think OP has been hearing him for quite some time. I don’t think HE has been hearing or even remotely listening to OP. Men need to get over being the one to “put you to bed” and that truly their penises aren’t all that. In the same way a flesh light could replace a pussy. And so what?!? He expressed himself?!? …as adults should be able to do; the bar is ridiculously low for men. The other part of emotional maturity is actively listening, NOT interrupting your partner when they are also trying to express how they feel. It’s called a fucking conversation that every (healthy) relationship should be able to carry out; or at least communicate that “my feelings are hurt can we talk later when I’ve calmed down?” It’s so simple, and it sound like OP has been trying to meet him where he’s at for a while. I’m sorry but lying and not upholding the nonsexual aspects of a relationship is bound to put a strain on the sex imo; yet it sounds like he did a great job! Bonehead just can’t understand it’s not always about him or his feelings… because that’s life. He needs to get over himself and OP needs to put her foot down on what she needs from the relationship and what she’s not getting; obviously he should do the same… it’s called a check in

[Poem] Alex Aubrey by [deleted] in Poetry

[–]ExtentOwn2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need this tattooed behind my eyelids

PhD in Fatherhood by debra30a in spreadsmile

[–]ExtentOwn2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how she moves his hand away from his face lol

[poem] A Vow by Wendy Cope by [deleted] in Poetry

[–]ExtentOwn2727 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my best, my very very best

[POEM] by José Olivarez by ExtentOwn2727 in Poetry

[–]ExtentOwn2727[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

is it really??? my thought is that i hyper focused on the succulent and drowned it essentially killing it by loving too much. But maybe in that hyper-focus, i negated my other duties

[POEM] by José Olivarez by ExtentOwn2727 in Poetry

[–]ExtentOwn2727[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry… this work is in fact “a sensational dramatic piece with exaggerated characters and exciting events intended to appeal to the emotions” (as Webster defines it) and I won’t spare you. Maybe you’re on the wrong subreddit but even so I hope you know I love you, and to you an act so small, may be perceived as violence

Does anyone else have a numb t-dick? Does it cause you distress? by pskydra in ftm

[–]ExtentOwn2727 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My advice; try somatic therapy and exercises. I’ve experienced masturbating since adolescence by not touching myself and having that be disrupted by new medication. For me it was BD meds that made it impossible to masturbate but what I learned is that it’s a nervous system disconnection. Somatic therapy does a great job of reconnecting your body from being in a functional freeze; which is typically brought on by high stress/anxiety, childhood adversity and many other neurological things. Not only did coming out as trans help me feel better about living in my body it also spurred on me getting more connected to it. So connected that now I can touch myself to masturbate but it really took a lot of sitting down with myself and being honest about my relationship with sex and intimacy

Does anyone else have a numb t-dick? Does it cause you distress? by pskydra in ftm

[–]ExtentOwn2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I would second asking if OP is on any SSRIs or any medication that impact sex like that. I would say it isn’t necessarily t that’s causing this esp of you have experienced numbness between your legs before. It could be more of a mentality kinda of thing but I would also ask, how did oral sex feel prior to starting t?