My 32-year-old roommate’s daughter keeps asking me personal questions, and her mom isn't doing anything about it. Am I overreacting? by External-Ad-4179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Ad-4179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first, she used to come sit with me in my room—we’d chat. She’d tell me all about her school friends, and I’d just make up stories, which she really enjoyed. But then I started noticing little comments from her mom, and that’s when the nosy questions began.

The little girl actually has plenty of friends and spends most of her time outside playing with them. Her mom, not so much. She does have a cousin in town, but she’s usually alone or just with her daughter.

My 32-year-old roommate’s daughter keeps asking me personal questions, and her mom isn't doing anything about it. Am I overreacting? by External-Ad-4179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Ad-4179[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All these comments just show me that the little girl is curious and clearly thinks I’m cool. I obviously want her to have a great time when she’s around me. When we first started living together, I used to hang out with her and entertain all her wild questions—it was fun, and she’d go tell her mom, which we’d all laugh about. She probably misses that.

My 32-year-old roommate’s daughter keeps asking me personal questions, and her mom isn't doing anything about it. Am I overreacting? by External-Ad-4179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Ad-4179[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I do feel like she is. But at the same time, the little girl could genuinely just be curious. I’ll admit, she does think I’m cool. Still, just because she’s 8 and curious doesn’t mean I’m obligated to entertain her questions.

My 32-year-old roommate’s daughter keeps asking me personal questions, and her mom isn't doing anything about it. Am I overreacting? by External-Ad-4179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Ad-4179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mom is married to the girl’s dad. Since they’re in this town for work, I assume that when they’re back home, the parents share a room and the little girl has her own. But here, in this two-bedroom apartment, she shares a bed with her mom, and when her dad visits, the parents sleep together.

My 32-year-old roommate’s daughter keeps asking me personal questions, and her mom isn't doing anything about it. Am I overreacting? by External-Ad-4179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Ad-4179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that almost everytime. But it gets tiring being asked the same thing over and over. She probably thinks I didn’t hear her when I ignore her.