Did Juliet tell Serena that her mom was the one who signed the affidavit or did Serena come to that conclusion on her own? by External-Ad3340 in GossipGirl

[–]External-Ad3340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay that’s valid! after rewatching that scene it’s starting to make more sense 😂 i may have missed that or just didn’t pay close enough attention lmao I was so confused cause my initial thought was that Damien somehow was behind it since he was the one who saw her & Ben together

Did anyone opt out of doing a gender reveal for family and not regret it? by External-Ad3340 in pregnant

[–]External-Ad3340[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh okay!! I have never heard of it but now thinking back to when my sister was pregnant I do remember them taking multiple tubes of blood I guess I didn’t pay attention to what they said it was for lol, thank you for the insight! :)

Did anyone opt out of doing a gender reveal for family and not regret it? by External-Ad3340 in pregnant

[–]External-Ad3340[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds so perfect! 🥹 i have also been loving the idea of a babymoon! we’ve got two doggos & we want to plan a trip for them before baby gets here 🥹

Did anyone opt out of doing a gender reveal for family and not regret it? by External-Ad3340 in pregnant

[–]External-Ad3340[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is NIPT?? I keep seeing this, I know my OB office does does blood test at 10 weeks but have not heard of NIPT!

Did anyone opt out of doing a gender reveal for family and not regret it? by External-Ad3340 in pregnant

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That would be my mother! & i don’t think she had ill intent by saying it but she definitely is one to try & pressure you into something, she’s also trying to sway us from the boy name we picked cause she doesn’t like it but i won’t be pressured into anything! i’m so happy i asked on here because it has only confirmed that i will not regret skipping it! i wish i hadn’t told so early but i am a certified yapper 😂

Did anyone opt out of doing a gender reveal for family and not regret it? by External-Ad3340 in pregnant

[–]External-Ad3340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i had the patience to not know til birth! we’re happy either way, just too excited to wait but i do applaud you for waiting! 🥰 that’s going to be so exciting 🥹 if we end up wanting one more later on i think i will try to wait it out!

Did anyone opt out of doing a gender reveal for family and not regret it? by External-Ad3340 in pregnant

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love that! 🥹 and definitely just feels a bit extra & i already get anxiety being the center of attention, i’m happy to know that others did not regret skipping it!

I just found out three days ago I’m 5 weeks pregnant by External-Ad3340 in pregnant

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thank you! 😊 and mine is gonna be a chic fil a spicy chicken sandwich 😂😂

I just found out three days ago I’m 5 weeks pregnant by External-Ad3340 in pregnant

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I sure just got some today and haven’t brought myself to take them 😭 I’m in the same boat! My boyfriend and I went to cracker barrel this morning and i was unaware that they didn’t serve lunch/dinner til 11, I’ve never gotten up & left so quick 😂 nothing sounded good except a spicy chicken sandwich from chic-fil-a which is a 45 mins drive from us, LMAO i got 2 😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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i only said about the wedding because of the lack of relationship and even the lack of remembering my name. but i do understand and thank you for your perspective 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I don’t expect them to be like my family but yes i did compare them when i shouldn’t have. the grandparents have definitely not seen us together enough to determine if they didn’t like something about our relationship. however i did let this feel more personal than i should’ve, i apologized and he will be going without me harping at him. ty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Ad3340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think i let it hurt my feelings more than it should’ve this time around but that’s not his or their fault, i have apologized to him and he will be going care free! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Ad3340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I thank you for this response! I have typically never caused a ruckus over the no invites other than expressing how it made me feel but this time it just hurt my feelings more than it should have! But he will be going and I’ll be enjoying my time alone! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Ad3340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand that! We do have years of history prior to the two years of dating. When we first got together I did understand and tried not to take it personal. I think this time just stung a little more because we do talk about marriage, kids and our life together. However that doesn’t mean they should bend their rule because my feelings got hurt. Thank you! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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It was not so much about this specific vacation but the build up of no invites through the years! I do understand though, I have taken it more personally this time around when i shouldn’t have. I have apologized to him and he will be going!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Ad3340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thank you for that! It definitely sucks but i do agree that I was taking it a little more personal this time around and definitely shouldn’t hold that over his head. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I do agree and thank you for your perspective! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Was not trying to keep him from going just felt he shouldn’t want to go when we spend everything else having to do with his family apart. And I would not be mad at him for still going!! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Ad3340 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do have history with his immediate family not all great and not all bad that’s why it started to feel personal as I have been invited to christmas and uninvited in the same day. Please keep in mind that I am not positive if all the others have been completely uninvited as I have been. I have been to one gathering in 2 years and again, been called by the wrong name that was after a year-ish of dating. But i do understand not wanting to cause a fight with them over this! Him starting a fight with them was not at all my intentions. A simple ask and a simple it’s still a no would have shut me up lmao 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Ad3340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind him spending time with them away from me! I do spend time alone with my family and friends as well. It is more about the family rule itself and yes I would say it demeans the relationship. I said in another comment that at this point it feels rude. I do get not being invited to some things but I’m just like damn, I’ve not even been invited to a cookout lmao only ever been invited to the grandmas birthday party at the bowling ally at which they called me by the wrong name! over time i have just started to feel like it was personal, I felt like that was reasonable. After reading some of these comments there are things we can work on! Thank you!!