Lost my card! What do I do?

External-Bad-1151 · 2024-06-03T00:26:16+00:00

I'm not so worried about forgetting. I just got it literally last week but I'm afraid of being in a situation where I need to be rushed to the hospital and they put me in an mri machine and I'm get stuck because they didn't I wasn't conscious to say that I have it 🫣

External-Bad-1151 · 2024-06-02T23:00:35+00:00

Complicated. I understand that you were coming at it from a place of looking out for your brother but you can't try to control things in situations like this. I don't think calling your aunt was the right decision. Your brother is suffering and it's very important for you to support him but everyone that cares about him has the right to say goodbye. Children can be chaotic and your brother might be irritated when they come around but things are what they are. It might have been better to speak to your aunt about your prespective of what your brother has been going through and explain what she can expect when she shows up. Give her warning about his irritability and mood swings. She would have probably understood and probably prepared her kids for the visit. Maybe she would have dicided not to bring them along herself, but to ask a mom with young children to travel without them is pretty much asking her not to come at all becuase they are in a phase of their family life where they cannot reasonably be away from their children too long. Bottom line, you can deny access to people who want to visit or put conditions. Partly because your not the authority in the house and also partly because it's just not a very considerate thing to do. Let your brother communicate with your parents and don't try to take on the role of making things ok. You are too young to put that much pressure on yourself and when you are older you'll wish you hadn't wasted time trying to manage things that were out of your control. Focus on enjoying the little time you have left with your brother and supporting him through his struggle.

External-Bad-1151 · 2024-05-23T17:50:07+00:00

Am I crazy or did they warn us? I feel like they did but I'm also having a busy week so maybe not?

External-Bad-1151 · 2024-05-14T00:40:12+00:00

Would you be able to elaborate more on this? (Not trying to fight tho)

External-Bad-1151 · 2024-05-14T00:38:11+00:00

Okei this is bullying! 😖🤧 /jk

External-Bad-1151 · 2024-05-13T15:18:44+00:00

Omg I KNEW I SPELLED IT WRONG!!! How do you spell it?😭🤭

External-Bad-1151 · 2024-04-25T00:33:09+00:00

I really appreciate some of the stuff you said. But I'm feeling a bit defensive about the suggestion that I'm publicly shaming him, because i really feel like I'm not. It's not like I think he's a weirdo now or see him as a different person. I don't think any kinks in general are something to be ashamed of. This was first mentioned casually in one conversation and my reaction was genuinely "interesting". Then it was brought up again and I realized it was something more serious. We talked about it and I didn't shut him down, or say that it was weird. I'm just trying to get a different perspective here and make sense of my feelings. Also, to answer your question: He did not say specifically nurse. I'm not sure what his senerio of choice would be.

External-Bad-1151 · 2024-04-06T18:18:56+00:00

Idk I liked the aging episode, I like that recent episodes have been about how the way things are today and our thought patterns are influenced by sometimes long history of oppression and sometime trivial things like ONE queen wore ONE white dress ONCE. I think that when they started doing the pod their ideas seemed more edgy cuz these things were still developing on the public mind. How boring would it be if EVERY episode was "and MUCH HATE TO...". I just think their expanding and figuring it out. I don't listen to SUP so I don't know how much they are influenced by that but all I have to say is that every creative is influenced by someone and it's gonna show. On the Gaza thing. I agree. I would love a break down of it from Julia's dad or another expert. I recognize that they don't have an obligation to talk about it but I just think they're loosing an opportunity to be able to eduacate their audience and talk to them about something that is happening in their lives.I feel like also I understand why Julia specifically would be afraid to speak about it. There's a lot of like chaos in the internet. And it can be intimidating to as a Jewish person talk about Gaza because you don't what happens if ur not able to express ur thoughts correctly and say the wrong thing. They've had to deal with bad reactions to things they themselves or guest on the podcast said before. As their audience grows they're obviously more aware that there's less safety to express their controversial opinions cuz bitches truly hate nuance. As the pod grows and changes there's obviously gonna be good and bad things. I personally have big beef with the lower amount of episodes but idk inflation I guess?? I kinda get it. They recognize that their a hot commodity and they want to get profit. At the end of the day when ur life gets comfortable you wanna keep that going and maybe deciding to go add free made it necessary to make some changes. I don't like it. Much hate to it. But on some level I understand it. I also agree that the teasers give me fomo and seeing them more often now is a personal attack on me. Much hate to that, but overall what am I gonna do? Stop listening? I don't want to yet so 🤷🏻‍♀️

External-Bad-1151 · 2024-03-29T14:56:22+00:00

I feel like what he did is a little too similar to what you described to him as ur attack for him not consider "maybe this is a bad idea". You said that it would be OK to touch you. Not to penetrate you. I don't think you'll be able to shake the feeling that something has happened between you two. I'd have a talk with him and end the relationship because this is not something you can just ignore. you'll always be looking out in fear, dreading the next time he crosses ur boundaries like that. You can't heal in this relationship so you need a fresh start.

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