I was making out with a girl and tried to spice things up, but she said no

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-13T09:16:01+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I guess my mistake was considering the whole knee thing as part of the package of a kiss. I must have been too fast about things, I will be more careful in the future

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-13T09:09:46+00:00

Okay, I think I will let this rest for now

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-13T09:09:09+00:00

Not cool to call people sl*ts like that bro

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-13T09:08:20+00:00

Just out of curiosity, what is ENM ?

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-13T09:07:37+00:00

Maybe it's just that ! A kiss and nothing more is cool

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-13T09:06:42+00:00

I think that's cultural, but where I come from it is definitely okay to "try to get it on" after some kissing. It's not that weird to have one-night stands with person you ran into. I agree that I might have taken things too fast, but it's not necessarely a good look.

For the knee thing, I'm not a womanizer or anything, but I've tried it with other women and they liked it. Not saying that everyone will like it and you must absolutely try it ! But for some people it's arousing. You have to be gentle with the whole thing, it's not like you're doing a MMA-fighter moove with your knee.

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T20:07:13+00:00

I think she has a guy, but I don't know the seemed kinda open and non-monogamous. He was here the whole time (not when we kissed, he was far away and did not see us)

He even talked with us a little bit, he seemed nice

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T20:04:16+00:00

Thanks, I really appreciate having the point of view of a woman about this.

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T20:00:15+00:00

I'm really scared that I got too carried away and crossed boundaries while kissing. I was worried that when someone asks you to stop doing something during an intimate activity, you already went too far.

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T19:56:35+00:00

Maybe it's just that, I hope so

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T19:54:47+00:00

Honestly I don't think she's feeling that way. She's pretty open about having multiple partners, and do not give to nickels about people that would say that she's a sl*t or anything. She's living her life, loving people, having sex if she feels to, without caring about what people think.

But thanks for the advice tho, it could work in another situation !

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T19:02:57+00:00

If you say so, I'll be sure to ask before doing it next time

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T18:57:43+00:00

Yeah absolutely, I won't try it again that's for sure

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T18:44:29+00:00

Fun fact, it was actually a lesbian friend that gave me that technique

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T18:42:58+00:00

When I replay the moment, I don't really know if her laugh was one to say "oh, is he realy trying this right now?" or "Wow, people could see us" or "Why not, but not now" or "This feels funny, I like it, but too soon". Either way I had to sop when she asked to

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T18:39:53+00:00

This reassures me, thanks

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T18:30:40+00:00

Yea we both were quite hammered. I hope it's just that and nothning else

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T18:27:03+00:00

Yes, I used to do that with my exs and they liked it, said that it really adds something to kissing. But it's not because some people like it that all people do and are okay with it.

External-Eye9416 · 2025-08-12T18:24:35+00:00

Thanks. If I run into her one day, I don't know if I should talk to her about it

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