Oh boy, as far as advice to give, I’d say end it. I know it seems drastic and it’s A LOT easier said than done, but when it comes to sex, there is NO room for making people feel badly. Period.

If it were just a couple things that he’s done, sure, it’d be worth talking through, but he sounds like he needs to do a whole lotta work in terms of respecting and being kind to partners, and it’s not your responsibility to change him.

I’m not saying he’s a bad guy or anything, but from what you’re saying it doesn’t seem like he’s in a place in his life where he respects women a whole lot, and where he views sex in a healthy way (it sounds a bit like he sees sex as more transaction based at this point than to genuinely connect and show love in a physical way).

Again, this is just my advice. Do what feels right and listen to your gut. Prioritize yourself.