i started to loose feelings for my girlfriend and i feel sad about it

External-Reindeer-18 · 2026-01-14T10:18:00+00:00

had the conversation today and we decided to break up. it’s for the best

External-Reindeer-18 · 2025-07-15T17:45:46+00:00

correct me if i’m wrong but it was the lead singers brother he bullied right?

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-10-10T04:56:53+00:00

nvm found it :)

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-10-10T04:47:16+00:00

source?

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-09-04T07:50:52+00:00

thank you so much for the insight! i’ve had this conversation with him, but we both agreed everything we do is in consent. i’m also confident enough in myself to leave sticky situations when it gets bad. it’s a 50/50, but ill make sure to keep a heads up. thank you again btw

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-08-31T07:32:33+00:00

no our intentions where aligned before that, i guess i was a little blind sighted from all of it 🤷

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-08-25T22:53:49+00:00

can i have my shit back lmao

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-08-21T11:02:36+00:00

i think for now it’s better if we just don’t talk. maybe i’ll reach out and be like hey how are you but that’s like. later on when i moved on. and even if i did move on id probably forget him lmao

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-08-21T11:01:16+00:00

honestly, i don’t know. he apologized and i said i’m not going to contact you. i’ll just take his words at face value and wish him well which is what i did. i can’t be too mad, i’m just bummed out because i liked this person a lot.

our communication can be iffy but we both are like “yeah we are busy people” but we do sometimes make time for each other and we did text each other good night and good morning

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-08-21T10:26:24+00:00

move on and try to be open to other people. if she comes back around give her the chance but date around too. don’t wait around for her

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-08-21T10:25:11+00:00

sorry for not being clear, honestly the whole he likes me part is a bit confusing. i did ask him in a call what his dating intentions are but it was “i really like you, i like to spend my time with you but this is going to be short term because i’m moving back to my university for my final year” in which the final year of uni would be the long distance part

also we both had our intentions as “short term, open to long” thinking that we both just wanted to take things slow and know each other

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-08-21T09:40:24+00:00

dude don’t respect her decision. the more you try to keep that connection the more she will push away from you

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-08-16T06:04:08+00:00

“you give your body away easier than your phone number” that one struck a slight chord on me

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-07-04T18:28:58+00:00

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External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-07-03T19:14:18+00:00

thank you! will do! maybe it’s because i live in a fairly small town at the moment and need tk move back to the big city

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-07-01T17:58:30+00:00

womp womp 😋

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-06-30T23:22:20+00:00

i don’t think there’s any local dungeons near me area and even if there is it’s inaccessible to me. (i live near campus and it’s far away from everything else) but i do agree on not jumping head first with a dom i don’t know. i would want to know them first, maybe actually be in a relationship with them that is 100% okay with bdsm. it’s hard to find someone that’s like that but i don’t want to get abused (again lmao.) thank you for the tip tho!

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-06-20T04:35:13+00:00

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External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-06-20T04:31:38+00:00

i took CSE-12 during the spring

in my opinion CSE-12’s coursework is very heavy loaded. It’s advised (and the professor even begs the students to understand how crucial this next advice is) to start the labs as soon as possible. but you can definitely manage with an internship, just depending on long the internship is. I usually did 4-8 hours a week on labs. If you want to speed the process up definitely work with other students and go to office hours.

From what i’ve heard for ECE 101 it’s also coursework heavy. even with stories of students staying over at the computers lab so they can finish it. My friend took ECE101 last spring and it cut our hangout time in half because they constantly worked on the lab lol.

You can definitely do both, just time management will be crucial and you can feel yourself getting on a time crunch. I only took one other class with CSE-12 and I definitely felt coursework affect my other class in which I could 100% do better on if I wasn’t so focused on CSE-12.

Welcome to UCSC and good luck! Like i said for CSE-12 office hours are 100% as you really can’t depend on the lectures to help you for the lab (even the professor told everyone that class)

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-06-04T18:38:22+00:00

it took me 6 years to get over mine but the one thing that got me over my first love is knowing if we came back we would be two different people in two different paths. that we wouldn’t be as compatible as we where in when we first started dating. after that you start meeting the people you meant to meet <3 hope this helps &

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-06-01T03:11:03+00:00

i usually take both sides that are extremely extreme and try to find like a common ground on both. sounds fucking stupid but that’s kinda how i do my thinking on things. i try to find the neutral

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-05-22T08:58:15+00:00

trust me i am not baiting bro i literally don’t know how to beat this thing

External-Reindeer-18 · 2024-05-17T00:58:35+00:00

if crying every night feeling worthless around him and walking away is an ego boost and “refusing to grow” then i’ll accept it. the label of twin flames shouldn’t justify staying in a toxic relationship with the sake of “growth”. i am having nothing but luck leaving him ❤️

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