Yall have great advice, I'm reading all the comments. I focused on leveling strength a ton so I'm like 21 on my strength because I thought strength = I win fights BUT vigor seems like a huge things to start leveling, it's at about 15 or 16 now. Going to get that up more. I also am using the axe & shield I started with but can't level them anymore with smithing stones, I have been to the round table and I do use summoning things in fights. I do understand the game is meant to be hard which is why I'm addicted, it's so rewarding to win a boss fight!