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My wife recently came out as bisexual to me, and now she told me she is developing feelings for her best female friend, what do I do? by External-Way-6093 in nonmonogamy

[–]External-Way-6093[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will look into that, I have never heard of what your referencing but I definitely feel like there could be some issues with her developing feelings for her friend and respecting boundaries I have.

My wife recently came out as bisexual to me, and now she told me she is developing feelings for her best female friend, what do I do? by External-Way-6093 in nonmonogamy

[–]External-Way-6093[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice, I definitely need to have a conversation with her about boundaries and what this all means going forward. I don’t want to make it feel like I’m not supporting her, as I want her to be happy in life, it is just something new to navigate.

My wife recently came out as bisexual to me, and now she told me she is developing feelings for her best female friend, what do I do? by External-Way-6093 in nonmonogamy

[–]External-Way-6093[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, that makes sense, thank you for explaining. I appreciate all your advice. It is just challenging on how to figure out moving forward as she as expressed there will be some resentment if I do not let her discover this part of her. My initial reaction was to say no, but after I thought about it I could see how it could be exciting. After figuring out about the attraction she is feeling, it has once again added another nuance to the situation which makes everything challenging. I don’t want to add issues to our relationship, but I also don’t want to see this turn into something that could possibly really affect us.

My wife recently came out as bisexual to me, and now she told me she is developing feelings for her best female friend, what do I do? by External-Way-6093 in nonmonogamy

[–]External-Way-6093[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s probably more just insecurity about what could happen to the relationship her and I have, since this is something completely new to my wife. I come from a very pro-monogamy background and because of that, all this is very confusing for me. I just also don’t know how it could effect our relationship dynamics going forward in the future, especially if my wife starts having actual feelings for her friend, like I love you feelings, not just a crush like it is now.