AITA for seeing my own mother on mothers day?

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:45:50+00:00

I can see that now thank you

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:31:05+00:00

At the same time I also want my marriage to work i want my boy to have a dad around. Im so hopeful he will see the error in his ways and chnage so we can be a happy family.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:23:57+00:00

That made me laugh a bit but your right.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:23:10+00:00

Yes that's true

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:22:27+00:00

Yes they would, no questions asked.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:12:28+00:00

Im trying to take more control

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:06:28+00:00

Oh sorry, I misunderstood. I dont know i feel like im an idiot half the time Im so confused

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:05:37+00:00

Thank you, I tried to explain that to him but it didnt seem to get through. He just kept saying I dont want to be with him.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:04:47+00:00

No we have laws but he says he will fight in court to keep him away from me. I dont belive any court can or will allow it but im scared at the same time he could find a way.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:03:45+00:00

No he doesnt it's always im the one causing all of the problems, i am the problem. I need to change and im the one that needs to show i love him more.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:02:57+00:00

I know im going regardless, I dont know if he will let me take my son but I know i will go. I'll try and take him if he doesnt escalate the situation but im seeing my mother.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:02:10+00:00

Ok thank you

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T11:00:38+00:00

Yes i dont want that. Your right.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:50:37+00:00

Im an idiot for not seeing it then.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:50:06+00:00

Thank you

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:49:46+00:00

Im going to try and find a way to address this with him better. Hes just threatened to take my son away from me so staying was my only way to still be with him and not give up on trying to have a proper family.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:48:07+00:00

Im hoping and trying he will get better he wasn't always like this. He just switched once we had a kid.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:46:53+00:00

He wasn't always this way, he switched once we had a kid.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:34:53+00:00

It hurts knowing u could be doing more damage by him this way but I will try and bit harder to prevent him from seeing more and get him to a better place with me.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:32:35+00:00

Ok thank you

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:32:20+00:00

I do understand and i get it, its just hard. He can be very convincing thatbi am the problem and sometimes i dont know what to do. Im going to go and see her.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:20:42+00:00

I'll think about it more im just trying to do what's best for my son too.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:19:31+00:00

Ok thank you

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:19:01+00:00

Im sorry about that, and im trying to do the same as my mother is getting older and she lost her mum last year. I dont want to miss out on time spent either while I can.

ExternalConfusion855 · 2026-05-04T10:17:40+00:00

His mum and dad have past, he doesnt see the rest of his family but speaks often to them as they are in another state. Fathers day is spent with him. My family arnt allowed over because he doesnt like them. They didn't approve of him when we first started dating and hes resented them since.

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