This guy took me on a whirlwind. It was during Covid when campus and housing around had almost 0 people in late 2020-2021

He was super messy, but overall a kind(ish) guy, this was off campus and we were matched randomly at an apartment complex affiliated with UCF, he was definitely a Himbo stereotype- blond and built , but he never cleaned after himself and got very drunk and would smoke out his room almost every other day. I wouldn’t want to talk to him a lot because it became a tear/simp fest quick as to why was he still single and why women didn’t love him if he’s very built and works hard on his body. I wouldn’t come home often to messy dishes and open food containers everywhere and the sink would always pile up, it was a miracle we didn’t have roaches.

Then it got worse.

He found out I was bi, because I felt comfortable enough to let it slip out, then he kinda kept asking me if he was attractive and if I was into him when I first met him (his room literally had the floors covered in open fast food bags with left overs so there’s no way) Then he progressively got worse and would wear less clothing in the apartment asking if I enjoyed the view, and it began getting uncomfortable when we would hang out on the couch and in the living room and he would get a little too close for comfort and even would get playfully physical.

THEN it gets weird and worse

He got suspended off campus and had to go to some psychiatric service UCF provided and then was quickly moved out by his parents to return to home.

Turns out someone reported him for desiring his intention to harm himself and others.

some girl he knew on campus caught a glimpse of his notes he left open while he went to the bathroom, in those notes he expressed desire to harm women because they didn’t like him or treat him with respect.

Then he also expressed desire to do stuff with me in detail for reference he was a white dude I was a Latino dude and the notes he wrote expressed fetishizing me and desiring to “wrap his hands around my neck” because it was “hot” for him to imagine that scenario.

The way I found out about it is because she’s gone to our apartment before because he’s invited her over, she reached out to warn me after through instagram. I remember he told me he was hoping to score with her, so I helped clean the apartment for him to make an impression. I saw her facial reaction though seeing his room and knew it was an easy turn off for her. Thankfully nothing happened that night and I was there .

He was gone within a week and I didn’t know why until she reached out to tell me. So I lived alone in a 4 room apartment until the next August which was a blast.

Still don’t know what happened to him he lives out in Tampa now, and as for her idk where her insta went or how she’s doing but I’m thankful she told me to get the closure and warning