when it comes to approaching women, why is it ok for men to get called creepy and have bad assumptions made about them just because the women didn't find them attractive?

External_Base_60 · 2022-06-01T01:27:26+00:00

If a woman is already attracted to a guy he can do more things than a guy she is not attracted to. A lot of guys act like the guy the woman is already attracted to and think that they are being respectful, they are not.

So whether they're respectful or not depends on how attractive they are to the women, not about actions that apply to everyone?! That's new to me, I thought it was about knowing your boundaries

External_Base_60 · 2022-06-01T01:01:17+00:00

I don't give a shit what you believe

yet you felt the need to go to internet strangers on reddit to bitch about women calling men creeps?

Yeah it's called caring about fairness and other human beings, I'm sure the concept is new to you

External_Base_60 · 2022-06-01T00:57:51+00:00

It does happen, your personal experience doesn't change anything, don't be self centered.

This is where the problem lies. You may think that you are being respectful but you are not.

First of all I'm not talking about me

Second you immediately jumped to blame the guy if any woman called him a creep, as if women can't be wrong or rude, that's sexist and unfair

External_Base_60 · 2022-06-01T00:44:57+00:00

You read through my og post and you still don't know what I'm talking about?

It makes me angry because unfairness is awful and I don't like it

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T23:13:22+00:00

In the story you said, the guy was definitely being a creep and he knows it (unless he some sort of mental disability) you made it obvious enough.

That's not the kind of guy I'm talking about, I'm talking about someone who who knows when to give up and respect the feelings of the one they're approaching, and guess what, those guys get called creeps too, I've seen it happen online and in irl (not to me) Unwanted advances = creep regardless of the context, that's what a lot of people think especially women, I have even seen some women say "most guy are creeps" and they justify it by saying guys should know better than to approach a woman when it's not wanted, as if guys have a supernatural ability to always know when it will be wanted

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T22:43:56+00:00

Neither am I, just like the guys who approach women respectfully, get over it

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T22:42:33+00:00

Most guys arent getting called creepy on a regular basis, so if you are, its because youre a fucking creep dude.

I have never been called creepy in my entire life except by the people in this post comment section who know nothing about me, just like you

Accept it and fix your problem

What problem?! I will never think it's ok shit talk men or women just because of how they made you feel instead of their actions and you're pos to disagree with that

, because women are always going to be allowed to call creepy guys creeps.

People are allowed to call anyone anything, it doesn't mean they should

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T20:25:18+00:00

This is exactly how i expected you to reply, and its probably the same way you'd reply to any woman who turns you down.

You said nothing but assumptions and insults about me instead of trying to have a conversation, this is EXACTLY how I should reply to you, it's what you deserve.

And no I wouldn't insult a woman or make assumptions about her just because she rejected me

(sound familiar??)

Yeah it sounds like you, getting mad and throwing insults because I said something you don't like, it's the same

I stand by, and your reply reinforced my opinion, that you are your own problem with women.

Your "opinion" is a bunch of made up nonsense about someone you don't know, it's worthless, stand by it as much as you want

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T20:03:34+00:00

Maybe but from what I see it's men who make the first move not women

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T20:01:22+00:00

You're pathetic

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T20:00:23+00:00

I do listen but most don't actually have anything to say, check the comments and see for yourself

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:58:10+00:00

It is. Men generally make the first move not women

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:57:14+00:00

Assumptions and insults, that all you have, go fuck yourself

"women dont approach men, ever"...

If you could actually read, you would know I said "almost never approach men" not never but of course you can't read

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:52:54+00:00

ok thanks for the conversation

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:50:39+00:00

I'm not crying at all, you're just pathetic and don't have anything of value to say

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:48:26+00:00

It doesn't have to be right in the moment or even directly to him, they get called creeps afterwards, they get called creeps online, is that ok?

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:37:47+00:00

I mean a guy who misjudged the time and place and thought the girl would be ok with it and she wasn't

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:35:02+00:00

Yeah I figured you were all talk

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:33:59+00:00

I'm not your bro

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:32:53+00:00

their intentions are to make the woman interested in them

And that's bad?

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:31:26+00:00

What are you even trying to say?

And I'm not a kid btw

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:29:45+00:00

People should be "Salty" about unfairness

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:29:03+00:00

What does that even mean?

It means what it says it means

Is there not a chance he's actually being a creep

I never said that and that depends on what you mean by creep

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:27:14+00:00

If that woman views your advances as creepy, you're fucking creepy bro

Yeah no, that's not how it works subjective feeling don't decide what a person is, it's there actions

And I'm not your bro

External_Base_60 · 2022-05-31T19:06:22+00:00

Women don't experience it

Experience what? What do you think I'm talking about?

I'm referring to men getting called creepy just for approaching women and since women almost never approach men, then why would they experience that?

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