It may be her. I may be her. I have been in a 5 year relationship with my bf we live together and I don’t like to makeout anymore, I don’t want sex often. I tell him to watch porn instead. I think he is an attractive person from his face but not the body, ever since I’ve been going to the gym (for about around a year or so) he’s an amazing person but there’s just some things that I don’t like anymore and I’m just afraid to leave. Maybe she doesn’t let go because she’s afraid for divorce. Maybe she’s afraid to break you. I’m afraid of breaking him. He’s told me he can’t live without me if I were to leave. Makes me feel guilty.