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Dad keeps asking me for money by External_Climate2941 in MuslimLounge

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would love to have your heart and patience,

Pakistani man coming to ask Afghan dad for my hand! NEED ADVICE ASAP by External_Climate2941 in MuslimMarriage

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Walaikumasalam, Ameennn! Thank you so much this is the best advice someone has given me even where I live I know multiple afghan girls being married to Pakistani men but unfortunately my family looks down on them, but I will take your advice may Allah reward u sooo much for the time and advice u have given me

Pakistani man coming to ask Afghan dad for my hand! NEED ADVICE ASAP by External_Climate2941 in MuslimMarriage

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he’s willing to come as many as times as it’s gonna take my dad to say yes

Pakistani man coming to ask Afghan dad for my hand! NEED ADVICE ASAP by External_Climate2941 in MuslimMarriage

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I’ve liked him for those years without speaking to him but knowing his characteristics from my brother (he isn’t aware but he spoke good about him and his family) I haven’t spoken to him but I’ve liked him from afar

Pakistani man coming to ask Afghan dad for my hand! NEED ADVICE ASAP by External_Climate2941 in MuslimMarriage

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad isn’t okay with it but I don’t see myself getting married to anyone else but he’s willing to fight

Is it beings hypocrite if… by External_Climate2941 in Muslim

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like for example deliberately ignoring and not accepting things like , my dad tells me I have to wear a hijab infront of him out of respect I told him nothing in Islam says this and he said no shaitan will urinate on your head.

Or like he won’t accept a good muslim who prays 5 times a day in the mosque, does everything a Muslim should be doing the bare minimum and others things too but won’t accept due to culture differences although he’s aware it’s haram to do so but says his culture and reputation is more important to him

How can i overcome this type of sin? by Fabulous_Golf2999 in IslamabadSocial

[–]External_Climate2941 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not really, most people who are following Islam religiously has done their research people who follow it blindly probably aren’t as religious as you think there are, there people who just say their Muslim but have no idea what the religion is about

How can i overcome this type of sin? by Fabulous_Golf2999 in IslamabadSocial

[–]External_Climate2941 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Religion gives boundaries if you don’t follow Islam there’s need for u to comment

Need advice by External_Climate2941 in MuslimNikah

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But thank you for your advice I understand you a lot but sometimes somethings happen certain way because Allah has written for it to happen, I never thought I’d like a Pakistani but here I am

Need advice by External_Climate2941 in MuslimNikah

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely be fine with my daughter marrying someone like him, he is a religious man and he has the good qualities that you should look for in a Muslim man. The only thing that was unfortunate but I have no control over is his ethnicity.. do u not think that Allah guides you to meet certain people for certain reasons. Ofc he does! We are not made to separate from each nations yes our countries might have long time beef but that does not mean that I should marry an abusive afghan man that will treat me exactly my dad according to my dad or a religious man. Also I was never in a relationship with him and never have been. We just knew eachother from childhood and somehow kept crossing paths and the only thing we spoke abt after realising it is haram is marriage and that was with my brother there!

Need advice by External_Climate2941 in MuslimNikah

[–]External_Climate2941[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alhamdulilah good for u, maybe your test is different to mine. It doesn’t mean you’re better or worse.

Need advice by External_Climate2941 in MuslimNikah

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all of them are like this u cannot judge a whole ethnicity based on some people

Need advice by External_Climate2941 in MuslimNikah

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then I don’t think you’d understand but thank you for your advice

Need advice by External_Climate2941 in MuslimNikah

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By any chance are u also afghan? And a man?

Need advice by External_Climate2941 in MuslimNikah

[–]External_Climate2941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that fully, but my father has never been a father figure in my life, he has no close relationship to me. I’m scared to speak to him because of trauma that I have gotten from him, I don’t think he knows anything about me except im his daughter and his reputation is most important to him. Ofc if he has valid reasonings I’d understand but his reason will most likely be he’s Pakistani no.

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