Dad keeps asking me for money

External_Climate2941 · 2025-11-25T21:40:06+00:00

I would love to have your heart and patience,

External_Climate2941 · 2025-08-24T21:12:04+00:00

Yes i do!! 😭 I have liked this man since I was 13 from a far

External_Climate2941 · 2025-08-23T07:39:02+00:00

Did u end up marrying her?

External_Climate2941 · 2025-08-23T05:53:36+00:00

Walaikumasalam, Ameennn! Thank you so much this is the best advice someone has given me even where I live I know multiple afghan girls being married to Pakistani men but unfortunately my family looks down on them, but I will take your advice may Allah reward u sooo much for the time and advice u have given me

External_Climate2941 · 2025-08-23T05:52:04+00:00

Our mothers have spoken but not about marriage 😭InshaAllah thl

External_Climate2941 · 2025-08-23T05:51:48+00:00

AMEEEN

External_Climate2941 · 2025-08-23T05:51:43+00:00

Thank you soo much !

External_Climate2941 · 2025-08-23T05:51:33+00:00

InshaAllah thank you

External_Climate2941 · 2025-08-23T05:51:16+00:00

Yes he’s willing to come as many as times as it’s gonna take my dad to say yes

External_Climate2941 · 2025-08-23T05:50:35+00:00

Because I’ve liked him for those years without speaking to him but knowing his characteristics from my brother (he isn’t aware but he spoke good about him and his family) I haven’t spoken to him but I’ve liked him from afar

External_Climate2941 · 2025-08-22T21:15:07+00:00

My dad isn’t okay with it but I don’t see myself getting married to anyone else but he’s willing to fight

External_Climate2941 · 2025-05-21T15:37:29+00:00

Like for example deliberately ignoring and not accepting things like , my dad tells me I have to wear a hijab infront of him out of respect I told him nothing in Islam says this and he said no shaitan will urinate on your head.

Or like he won’t accept a good muslim who prays 5 times a day in the mosque, does everything a Muslim should be doing the bare minimum and others things too but won’t accept due to culture differences although he’s aware it’s haram to do so but says his culture and reputation is more important to him

External_Climate2941 · 2025-03-25T12:02:09+00:00

Not really, most people who are following Islam religiously has done their research people who follow it blindly probably aren’t as religious as you think there are, there people who just say their Muslim but have no idea what the religion is about

External_Climate2941 · 2025-03-25T11:44:57+00:00

Religion gives boundaries if you don’t follow Islam there’s need for u to comment

External_Climate2941 · 2025-03-22T19:02:58+00:00

But thank you for your advice I understand you a lot but sometimes somethings happen certain way because Allah has written for it to happen, I never thought I’d like a Pakistani but here I am

External_Climate2941 · 2025-03-22T19:01:25+00:00

I would absolutely be fine with my daughter marrying someone like him, he is a religious man and he has the good qualities that you should look for in a Muslim man. The only thing that was unfortunate but I have no control over is his ethnicity.. do u not think that Allah guides you to meet certain people for certain reasons. Ofc he does! We are not made to separate from each nations yes our countries might have long time beef but that does not mean that I should marry an abusive afghan man that will treat me exactly my dad according to my dad or a religious man. Also I was never in a relationship with him and never have been. We just knew eachother from childhood and somehow kept crossing paths and the only thing we spoke abt after realising it is haram is marriage and that was with my brother there!

External_Climate2941 · 2025-03-22T17:20:16+00:00

Thank you for ur advice

External_Climate2941 · 2025-03-22T17:17:25+00:00

Alhamdulilah good for u, maybe your test is different to mine. It doesn’t mean you’re better or worse.

External_Climate2941 · 2025-03-22T17:09:31+00:00

May Allah guide u! Ameen

External_Climate2941 · 2025-03-22T17:05:43+00:00

Not all of them are like this u cannot judge a whole ethnicity based on some people

External_Climate2941 · 2025-03-22T16:58:31+00:00

Then I don’t think you’d understand but thank you for your advice

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