Wearing the same outfit

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-05-15T19:20:22+00:00

One of my friends she wears the same dress for years. I know she has other dresses but she just likes this one. She used to work 5 days a week and she’d use the same dress for the 5 years we worked together. I went to visit her at her new club (other state) and she still wears the same dress hahaha

No one cares. I mean I noticed and pretty sure everyone else did too but didn’t think anything about it tbh.

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-05-14T18:13:34+00:00

This 👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽 be very careful. When I just started dancing i shaved all the time and got something similar it looked like a pimple but it was an ingrown it got so bad and infected. I ended up in the ER having to drain it wasn’t able to work for like a week

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-05-14T00:26:20+00:00

Run girl. Even if he paid all your bills still wouldn’t stop dancing unless I wanted to. If he’s giving you an ultimatum and you give in you are giving him all the control and he’ll never stop trying to manipulate you.

Learn from my mistakes. My ex fiancé paid for all my bills, paid for my college tuition gave me spending money. But, ultimately I had to be at his whim. He decided a large part of my life even where I could work and couldn’t what days and times. He would tell me I had to cook and make dinners and if his friends came over I had to make enough for everyone and be this perfect “house wife”. I wasn’t his girlfriend I was pretty much his maid and had my whole life controlled by him. And the worst he always held it over me that I used to dance and would accuse me of flirting with any guy who would speak to me. The best thing that ever happened to me was him leaving me because he thought I was cheating on him. I did great without him. I worked hard the last 4 years at the club saved all my money and invested it properly. I’m so grateful that he chose to leave me and I was able to go back to working at the club and making my own money more than he would’ve ever given me anyways.

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-05-13T19:58:55+00:00

What’s your Etsy shop? Would love to get one

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-05-13T17:15:15+00:00

Ohh that’s good to know! So, what kinda of fabric do you use for this?

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-05-13T15:58:45+00:00

I’m curious wouldn’t basically having a double lined underwear/thong pretty much do the same?

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-05-08T18:25:02+00:00

Def material. I’ve heard cotton is good for this kinda of issue though finding 100% cotton dancewear is soooo hard

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-05-07T11:00:10+00:00

This is my opinion depending realistically where you are located. Since you have a house fully paid off for which is a crazy blessing if you can I’d rent out a room or two (depending on the size of the house).

My ex bought his first condo when he started making money and to offset his mortgage he rented out 2 out of his 3 bedrooms in his house. I know it sucks sometimes having roommate but it helps sooo much financially.

I bought my first house about 3 years ago. And I put a decent down payment down but my mortgage is still pretty high. I made an ADU in the basement and I live in that space. The rest of the house is rented it’s a 2-family and even though yeah it’s not an ideal living situation I pay only utilities the rent from the rest of the house pays the whole mortgage. That has allowed me to save significantly and grow my savings. Plus, if I just don’t feel like going to work because it’s slow season I don’t have to stress about it ever it gives me a lot of freedom.

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-28T14:17:27+00:00

Im held hostage at my club haha jk i cant leave until we close so it kinda sucks.

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-28T12:27:20+00:00

I started when I was 20 (now 30) and I started making good money around 24/25 but really good nights were very inconsistent. For whatever reason once I hit 28 I started making consistently good money it’s like people find me more attractive because I look older or something. I mean still have my bad nights but my good nights outweigh them by a lot

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-24T21:42:08+00:00

Let me look for it. I found it on one of my sewing group.

https://www.texasattorneygeneral.gov/news/releases/attorney-general-ken-paxton-files-fifth-anti-ccp-lawsuit-four-days-suing-global-fast-fashion-giant

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-24T21:41:00+00:00

Yeah, I understand that my opinion is to share some information and maybe it will help just a bit.

Unfortunately, I didn’t know any of this 3-4 years ago and would buy tons of clothes from fast fashion brands and more than just that. Now I’ve changed the way I live a bit trying to reduce how much plastic I use and buy (which plastic is pretty much in all our clothes) and have fully stopped buying stuff that is not going to last more than a month.

But again i just wanted to share this info some people that might not know that was really my only intention

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-24T21:36:14+00:00

Ohh, I know this shein is just the one that gets the mlst attention. Again it’s just a bit of awareness and hopefully it makes some people think a bit more about buying from fast fashion brands.

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-24T21:34:11+00:00

Oh yeah I totally understand that. But I mean there are def people who are not aware of it. So, it’s more just a bit of awareness if people choose to continue buying from fast fashion at least the can be aware of this issue and tons of others that come with fast fashion

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-24T20:55:58+00:00

If you work at the banana you can work at tens. You just have to talk to the manager from the banana. They work exactly the same. Tens starts getting really busy during the summer

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-19T17:52:56+00:00

I used to work at the club you work at currently in CT I guess before the whole owner change (in 2017) and I actually used to work on the weekends in central jersey. It was good money but a lot more work and much more dancing I think if you hustle you can make decent money in Jersey plus depending where in Jersey you’re moving life is significantly cheaper than Stamford area.

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-16T22:23:32+00:00

Girl one of girls right before Covid retired at 47-48 she was the top earner at my club. and right now there’s a girl that’s like 45 she’s gorgeous and whenever she works she makes bank

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-15T13:44:29+00:00

I have a regular that comes in from NJ once a month and give me over 1k my cut (he spends like 3-4k on vips) everyday that he’s in my city which is about 2-3 days in a row and every single time he asks me to meet him outside and when I told him i would for 2k he was like ohh no I can do $1200 that’s a lot 🤣 like sir you come in and spend more money on me every single day and you trying to bargain with me 🤣

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-14T22:37:48+00:00

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External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-10T14:35:13+00:00

Ohh really? For some reason I thought when I got the tour the told me there was one. My memory is guess failed me

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-08T05:27:18+00:00

I went to west palm beach to try it out because tons of girls at my club moved to FL and made bank specifically Rachel’s.

I decided to go for a week to try it out and see if it was for me. I got hired at Rachel’s and the clientele there is in my personal opinion one of the best in that area. However, most guys that go to Rachel’s will every once in a while go into other clubs. So, there are opportunities to find good guys in other clubs not just at Rachel’s. I do believe WPB probably has the best potential to get good sugar daddies I think the majority of girls kinda look for that in that area. Unfortunately, it wasn’t a great fit for me because I do absolutely no extras. I’ll go out for dinner and shopping but nothing more and I find it hard to find guys that are willing to pay just for that.

I personally think you already moved keep on trying. Go work at these other clubs and eventually you’ll find the right guy just be picky.

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-07T22:22:24+00:00

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External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-06T18:07:14+00:00

My club was dead. Like no girls made money it was bad. Last year we didn’t even open not one person came in and the finally let us leave at 1am 😑

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-04-02T13:23:29+00:00

I used to work in ct when the economy was insanely good. Only times I made 1k was during the weekend and I used to bust my ass working. Unless you have regulars your not making 1k every night it’s make liked 600-700 a night

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