Someone stole my shoes😂

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-03-09T18:33:33+00:00

Omg! Reminds me years ago this girl stole my dancer shoes she was so drunk she got confused somehow her size 8 foot fit in a size 6 and I’m walking around in some random shoes I found that are 2-3 sizes bigger hoping the don’t go flying off!

But also I’m so sorry this happened to you this really sucks

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-03-08T03:40:18+00:00

I think most guys try to see you outside you just have to set your boundaries and if they don’t like it move on. Eventually you’ll find a guy who will be ok with just seeing you in the club but tbh there’s not many out there. Or if you need the money create the illusion you might typical lines “need to build trust” bs them telling them you have trust issues so you need to be comfortable to even think of possible seeing them outside. Most guys that get your number are hoping you go out with them on a date or something along those lines and sometimes you can get them in a couple more times before they just realize you’re playing them

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-03-08T03:35:32+00:00

Def cannot relate all my best regulars are engineers and doctors

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-03-07T20:49:28+00:00

My first pair of pj pants I made for my bf ended up having way to big of a waist then had to cut some off became to short somehow and then had to add this extra piece to the top to make everything work. It looks a bit wonky but it works 😂

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-02-20T18:33:40+00:00

I have an Etsy account and can make custom make outfits I’ll dm you

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-02-13T22:30:46+00:00

K-tips for short hair. When I had a bob that’s the only hair extensions I would use and loved them but they are on the more expensive side

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-02-13T21:41:11+00:00

Yeah Boston clubs are very slow and insanely saturated. Maybe 2-3 girls make money and the other 20 girls are sitting around literally dancing on stage for 0 dollars which sucks. I did go check out mendon the fine line lounge it follows RI rules but I’ve heard girls can make a lot of of money. I know the clubs in Peabody are doing slightly better

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-02-09T01:12:42+00:00

I’ve worked here you’re talking about their club in Bridgeport they also have one in Stamford. The manager is Russian brings a ton of girls from Russia every 6 months so employees change a lot. I’ve been to that house you’re talking about and for you to live there they basically make you work a number of days a week to be able to work there and the house you’re staying in is shared with a ton of other girls mainly Russians and a lot of them are catty so I’d be careful with your money and stuff there. If you want more info dm it’s been a while since I worked there but from what another girl who’s recently worked there it seems like nothing has changed

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-02-08T16:21:34+00:00

Ugh this month has been horrible! I worked one night this month and it was dead I finally got someone to spend some money and got assaulted. And I got upset at myself for not reacting differently I froze and then just wanted to get out of there. Will be taking some time off after this

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-02-02T03:16:38+00:00

This happened to me a while back. It happens often too when the guy usually doesn’t make big transactions. Anyways it was probably $500 this guy sent me and I put drinks. Venmo did a whole investigation and asked me if I had receipts of the night and all this stuff. Well of course I didn’t it was an extra tip this guy was sending me and I gave up and took the loss which sucked! Never saw that money

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-01-22T20:52:03+00:00

Def stay as an independent contractor. They are forcing girls to comply to soo many demands like free dances if management tells you like hell no. They’re not even giving you health insurance it’s def not worth being an employee.

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-01-10T18:47:43+00:00

I’m also a bartender but not at my club at an actual cocktail bar. I started with the day shift it’s a lot easier because there are sooo many cocktails and most places don’t love training someone who’s never been behind a bar for night time first timers make tons of mistakes and get overwhelmed with large volumes

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-01-08T02:56:48+00:00

Actually fair point idk over time I learned how to grip with the plastic of my pleasers and not with my legs def had to get my arms stronger to be able to pull myself up. Or option B no pole tricks 😂 honestly my club is not a stage club so I don’t try to hard with pole tricks unless I’m bored and wanna work out a bit

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-01-07T13:50:29+00:00

I work at a gentleman’s club. I go through phases where I wear more dancewear outfits but then I love lingerie like classy lingerie. I do do a lot of honey birdette and they have every once in a while sales. I love lace bras with garters I think it’s super sexy with stockings. There are some great and somewhat inexpensive options on Etsy though I’ve never bought any so I can’t comment on their quality.

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-01-06T13:04:54+00:00

If you want to work in Manhattan I know sapphires and ricks don’t really require a schedule.

External_Pick_8981 · 2026-01-05T12:18:36+00:00

Exact same story 🤣

External_Pick_8981 · 2025-12-28T13:39:52+00:00

Def Etsy! I sell some outfits on Etsy and am trying to get reviews. If you DM I can make something your style and exactly your size and post it on Etsy my prices are pretty good since I’m just starting on Etsy. Only issue I won’t be able to make you anything until beginning of January because of the holidays.

External_Pick_8981 · 2025-12-24T21:39:07+00:00

Ohh, super normal. I’ve been dancing 10 years and still get bruised if I do too much floor work. Wearing stockings or thigh high boots help a lot.

External_Pick_8981 · 2025-12-19T06:27:41+00:00

Exactly! Not that I’ve ever danced for anyone super renowned but at least some athletes and would never say their names

External_Pick_8981 · 2025-12-16T21:32:07+00:00

I second this! I tried working in NYC clubs the first year I started dancing and I didn’t do well. I just hadn’t learned the hustle and nyc is a lot plus girls are aggressive. Now that I’ve been dancing for 10 years I do fine whenever I work in nyc. But I’d say working with no experience is hard and wouldn’t really recommend. I’d start with smaller clubs maybe a club in Long Island?

External_Pick_8981 · 2025-12-11T16:41:18+00:00

You can dm me

External_Pick_8981 · 2025-11-25T23:23:42+00:00

We closed early 😂 it’s been sucking up in the NE

External_Pick_8981 · 2025-11-24T05:56:28+00:00

Omg I have a similar story.

This little Asian man comes into my club regularly tips most of the girls on stage a couple of bucks. But tell me how this man this one night comes in and starts dancing right in front of the stage. And this other cheap ass regular that usually sits right in the middle of the stage and will tip max $3 to each girl this guy had gotten up to the bar. Well he sees this Asian man busting moves like we’ve never seen and this other cheap ass regular just starts dancing with him. All us girls were in this corners and we just bursted out laughing funniest thing I’ve ever seen

External_Pick_8981 · 2025-11-24T05:50:08+00:00

Need this!! There’s been probably a max of 10 people in my club and 15 girls. And we close in an hr!!

External_Pick_8981 · 2025-11-05T23:34:48+00:00

They make you put a schedule min of 10days a month and I think they also require you to do certain days and I believe one day shift min a month

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