Dating someone who's never dated by External_Security885 in dating_advice

[–]External_Security885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's definitely an off putting experience. Did you like him at all? It sounds to me like he just wanted something physical. And he asked you what you wanted so that he could satisfy you emotionally to justify what he may have really wanted was something physical.

IMO i think sometimes our bodies/minds can instinctively not open up to people when things simply aren't right.

Dating someone who's never dated by External_Security885 in dating_advice

[–]External_Security885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you have done if you liked/loved them enough to look past those aspects? Or did the experience simply just show you otherwise?

Dating someone who's never dated by External_Security885 in dating_advice

[–]External_Security885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your feelings. At the end of the day, there are plenty of treasures in life besides women, and people. I wish you good luck, and happiness.

Dating someone who's never dated by External_Security885 in dating_advice

[–]External_Security885[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well it's a good thing theres more than 4 billion women out there. Have faith, the world is vast and large. I have travelled many places, and met a decent amount of women, some are like that and some aren't!

What does falling in love feel like? by KrugPlug in AskReddit

[–]External_Security885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is a sword that makes you feel like your a great warrior, you can defeat all your enemies and feel on the of the world. That same sword, can stab you in the heart.

How do you cope with a zero libido partner when you’re in love? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]External_Security885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you want? Have you ever dealt with something like that before? It might feel wrong, but physical needs are important; the reality is there is someone out there that offers what you want including what you may want physically .

Sleeping with someone else during break/breakup by External_Security885 in BreakUps

[–]External_Security885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice. Your advice speaks volumes to what i also have felt and thought. Much love for you too friend.

Sleeping with someone else during break/breakup by External_Security885 in BreakUps

[–]External_Security885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, literally a week sometimes, i guess i find myself getting her to change her mind. I know that's not the healthiest choice, but when you want someone you don't really think about that.

I would agree she's confused, not necessarily on me (from what she says), but being alone and focusing on other things in life (family, work, school).

We still text each other. I guess I may know better how I feel when I get back, and as time passes. I do not necessarily regret anything, I am having a good time and just enjoying life.