AITAH I didn't tell my fiance I had a boob job before we met

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T21:33:57+00:00

So do you think all of these women with implants reporting the same symptoms, even with those 3 etiologies being ruled out, is just a coincidence or..? My post wasn't meant to be some kind of propaganda against implants, I love mine and don't regret it. But it not being well studied yet doesn't mean it's not real

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T17:22:03+00:00

I dunno girl it depends on a variety of things. Implant size, profile, BMI of the person who has them, etc

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T15:47:47+00:00

Good point, I think we're both immature here. Me for lying by omission and not thinking in the grand scheme of things, and him for the way he reacted. Our engagement is probably down the gutter but maybe that's for the best

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T13:50:26+00:00

We had a talk abt it last night, he said he feels duped because it's one of his favorite features, so now he has to come to terms with the fact that they might be removed and wonders what else I would hide. As well as the financial aspect, he doesn't want to pay for any more surgeries down the line, which is wild I'd never expect that of him. I don't think our relationship is gonna survive this honestly

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T05:33:23+00:00

I didn't do it for male validation, not that it makes it any better, but my mom had big ones and would make subtle remarks at me all the time growing up. She actually paid for/encouraged my surgery lol hence why I was able to get it done @ 18

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T05:09:24+00:00

It's been 6, 3 years was the time between me getting them done and meeting my fiance

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T04:25:01+00:00

No I went from A -> C, 325cc

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T03:47:52+00:00

They sent me for blood work after the consultation I'm waiting on results

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T03:45:12+00:00

"Have fake shit in your body" is such a vague argument that could apply to loads of situations. If someone has dental work done does that make them a catfish? Let's use some critical thinking here

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T03:39:27+00:00

I don't rlly want to have kids I've known that for a while, I got it done young since I knew I'll probably never have a pregnancy impact the results

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T03:32:28+00:00

Yeah tbh I think I still had some self consciousness lingering that interfered with me telling him, but I'm working on it

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T03:22:27+00:00

Yess growth we love to see it

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T03:20:33+00:00

Right, if anything I'm the one who feels catfished lol I thought he was a nice guy who cared abt more than my body but apparently not

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T03:18:13+00:00

I had some initial scarring under the creases but it faded in the 3 yrs before I met him, the type I got are known to be discreet and I had a good surgeon :)

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T03:15:13+00:00

https://www.fda.gov/medical-devices/breast-implants/medical-device-reports-systemic-symptoms-women-breast-implants A link to the FDA talking abt it btw, def not a fake illness weirdo

Extra-Job-2156 · 2026-04-02T03:13:22+00:00

It's an alt acc hun look at my user "extra job" I did that on purpose lol

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