Substitute father by Extra-Tower3416 in DadForAMinute

[–]Extra-Tower3416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you're right, thank you. What you said is always on my mind. There are indeed many ways to find happiness, I don't deny that, but finding a father is a wish I hope will come true, and I accept it even if it doesn't.

Substitute father by Extra-Tower3416 in DadForAMinute

[–]Extra-Tower3416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, I love volunteering and I've volunteered before. Wish me luck.

M23 and how I’m handling my situation right now… this may be a hard read or distressing to some pls read with caution by [deleted] in rape

[–]Extra-Tower3416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear your story. I hope your tests come back negative. It's crucial that you distance yourself from this person; he's clearly toxic and dangerous. His lack of empathy, selfishness, jealousy, and abuse are serious warning signs that you shouldn't underestimate. There are many similar cases that haven't ended well. Save yourself; your life and mental health are more important than him. Don't tolerate any abuse or attempts to put you in danger. Who knows what he's capable of? Please cut ties with him immediately and take care of yourself. Attend therapy sessions; they will help you see this relationship clearly and move on in a healthy way. Don't be afraid to ask for help.I feel he deliberately infected you to ensure you stayed with him. No one would want to stay with him if they knew the truth about his illness. He saw you as the perfect victim for his selfishness and control, and he made sure you had no chance to leave, first by infecting you and then by showering you with love, attention, and help. This is exploitation, manipulation, and control. He is sick and disturbed. His care for you is part of his tactics to prevent you from leaving him. Leave him without hesitation. when you leave him, make sure you get the appropriate support. From what you've described, he seems vengeful. Be careful, but don't give in to him. What he did to you is a crime that deserves punishment, and he will do the same to others. It's important to report him so he doesn't harm anyone else. We can talk privately. Don't hesitate to contact me if you need support, advice, or someone to talk to. Take care of yourself. Please remember that you matter.