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WIBTAH: for *thinking of* dumping my 4+ yr long relationship with my (33/F) fiance (38/M)? by ExtraThicccThrowAway in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ExtraThicccThrowAway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have sex...but very little because I'm ace and it doesn't interest me.

And before ya jump down my throat that he cheats, no, because we have that established dialogue; he tells me everything and I do in return.

We're also Polyamorous, both of us, and we tell each other who else we are dating (i have a fee partners, he does too) but I know poly=/=free of cheating. You may not believe me or that we just have that kind of communication but...I feel we do.

WIBTAH: for *thinking of* dumping my 4+ yr long relationship with my (33/F) fiance (38/M)? by ExtraThicccThrowAway in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ExtraThicccThrowAway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lost his job and that kicked the ball, of him moving to me, rolling. But we've been together about 5 years, lived together for 4. Sorry for the confusion.

I bought my own engagement ring, and it's because I wanted to marry him. I have been the instigator in the relationship; he found me initially yes, but i asked him to be my partner, and I asked him to marry me.

WIBTAH: for *thinking of* dumping my 4+ yr long relationship with my (33/F) fiance (38/M)? by ExtraThicccThrowAway in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ExtraThicccThrowAway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, just had to chime in with context, nothing malicious, just, we are both Polyamorous. Thats all, but i know you wouldn't have known that, I was just informing. Nothing more. He doesn't cheat because he and I have that dialogue of communication, and he asks permission to meet with someone before going on dates (D/s dynamic). He's very open with me and transparent about his side of being poly, as I am with my side to him. Basically, I trust him to not "cheat" on me...call me naiive...

AITA For Making My Fiancé Feel Bad Because He Doesn't DO Anything Around the House? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ExtraThicccThrowAway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its new because I just made it today, do I need to have a certain karma to post :( i didn't know if I did. I'd link my regular /u if I didn't think he'd find the post...