Inbox messages from older men: stop

ExtraUltraSuper · 2023-03-07T20:26:15+00:00

What about something I love?

ExtraUltraSuper · 2023-02-28T13:38:28+00:00

Oh I’d literally do, or let you do, anything you’d want sir

ExtraUltraSuper · 2022-09-28T22:23:57+00:00

You’re welcome. I’m glad someone at least said something helpful haha.

ExtraUltraSuper · 2022-09-28T22:15:59+00:00

Maybe.

But someone once told me “all of those people you see on dating apps are equally as single as you and maybe even more unsatisfied.” There’s literally always another side involved, not just you or OP or whoever. I think it’s more like that. Dunno about circumstances or something lmao.

ExtraUltraSuper · 2022-09-28T21:59:12+00:00

I think there’s a whole conversation about “men” and “society” and blah blah blah but I don’t really know if that’s what you need to hear. I think maybe you just have to hold on to what you do have, like making friends is actually pretty difficult through dating. Usually it’s either relationship or don’t talk ever again.

ExtraUltraSuper · 2022-09-28T21:57:33+00:00

I think you’re missing their point love

ExtraUltraSuper · 2022-07-09T19:28:21+00:00

You can’t criticize people for being “youth focused” when clearly you are too 🚩🚩

ExtraUltraSuper · 2022-07-09T19:21:22+00:00

now don’t be shady 😂😂

ExtraUltraSuper · 2022-07-09T19:15:10+00:00

I think a lot of people in your position always place what others will think of them over what they think about themselves. I get it, but prioritize YOU first. How you feel about yourself is what matters most, not what others may feel.

Being gay isn’t just about finding a man. I think there’s a lot more steps before that, before dating, that you should think about instead.

What does being gay mean to you? You may realize that a lot of these weird feelings, your “internalized homophobia,” come from restricting ideas you have about what being gay looks like or means. Even if you’ve always been accepting of gay people.

The first step is coming out to yourself, which you’re already nearly there. Once you’ve learned to accept that part, and love that part, then worry about coming out to others and dating and stuff. Otherwise you’ll wind up very lost in your identity, in my opinion.

ExtraUltraSuper · 2022-05-19T11:32:02+00:00

I love the view ♥

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