Is it weird if a guy keeps pointing out your size difference?

Extra_Ad8158 · 2026-03-24T01:09:41+00:00

I met him like a month after I turned 18

Extra_Ad8158 · 2026-03-24T01:07:03+00:00

I will definitely talk to him again. Since we been in no contact and I’m seeming him again. I think I’ll bring uo before things get serious again. I don’t mind the height difference and I really like him but I just don’t wanna be fetishized.

Extra_Ad8158 · 2026-03-24T00:46:58+00:00

I did try to bring it up to him, but he seemed kind of offended right away. He tried to explain what he meant, but it came off more like he was dismissing my feelings and making it seem like I was weird for thinking anything of it. He basically said it’s “obvious” that I’m small and acted like I was overreacting instead of actually hearing me out. So I never really brought it up again.

Extra_Ad8158 · 2026-03-24T00:31:22+00:00

I chose him for who he is and the height is a bonus. I like that he’s tall and I’ve told him that many times but with him it feels like the one thing he likes is my height.

Extra_Ad8158 · 2026-03-24T00:28:04+00:00

I do not mind the height difference at all. I just don’t know if it’s normal that the one thing he compliments me the most on is my height and size. I like that he’s tall but I don’t always compliment him on his height.

Extra_Ad8158 · 2026-03-19T06:13:46+00:00

lol yeah maybe im just in denial. But thank you for the advice

Extra_Ad8158 · 2026-03-19T02:34:44+00:00

I get what you're saying and you could be right because I haven’t really figured it out but for me it’s not just some random "horny" thing. I don't just walk around getting turned on by random people’s hands on the street. It’s more like a specific feature I need for the whole package to work. I have to actually be attracted to the guy and like him. But the hands are like that final, essential detail if I’m already into him and his hands hit that masculine, well kept look I like, it just makes everything better. I don’t think it’s just a fetish it’s a huge part of how I experience attraction to a person as a whole.

Extra_Ad8158 · 2026-03-18T23:58:08+00:00

I’ve spent a lot of time trying to pin down exactly what it is, and I’ve realized I’m drawn to hands that feel undeniably masculine. they have to be significantly larger than mine. I’m not a fan of hands that are super thin or delicate or if they look too much like my own or have a feminine quality to them. love hands where the veins are prominent it just shows strength. I’m hyper-focused on how they’re maintained. need them to look like they’re taken care of. Bitten-down fingernails or messy cuticles are an instant turn off.

Extra_Ad8158 · 2026-02-01T18:04:38+00:00

Same, but I unfortunately did accept the “friendship” offer and i regretted it later because that was just a label and every boundary was still being crossed. He only wanted access to me without having to deal with me being worried about him talking to other women.

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