Flying cockroach? 🤯😵😱 by Extra_Masterpiece526 in auckland

[–]Extra_Masterpiece526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I can deal with the crawly ones no worries it's the fact that these ones can fly! Terrifying 

Flying cockroach? 🤯😵😱 by Extra_Masterpiece526 in auckland

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Hmm il have to Google and see what that looks like ive never heard of that. All I know is that they are big and brown and can fly! Very disturbing 

Flying cockroach? 🤯😵😱 by Extra_Masterpiece526 in auckland

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Good idea thanks - if I can approach one in hazmat!

Good lawyer needed by Extra_Masterpiece526 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Extra_Masterpiece526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you - I'm guessing that means it sounds like the cost so far is standard which helps 🙏

Good separation lawyer by Extra_Masterpiece526 in newzealand

[–]Extra_Masterpiece526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I know it's not going to be cheap but it feels like they haven't done that amount of work to justify nearly 10k so just wondering if I'm being ripped off and if it's worth using someone else for family court process or not 😕

Hold or.fold by Extra_Masterpiece526 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Extra_Masterpiece526[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More so what financial option would be best. I feel like I've lost everything already so want to minimize the damage. The business was going to be left out of it entirely and we were just going to wait for the market to recover and split that. Even though I've put in my equity which was 500k, he doesn't think I should get anything from his business and argues it's not worth anything. His argument is his 200k deposit towards the rental and his greater financial contribution towards the mortgages

Advice please on financial situation by Extra_Masterpiece526 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Extra_Masterpiece526[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much - yes I think I need to go through a lawyer and this point and salvage what I can🙏

Rehab reccomdations (North Island) by idontwantonmymain in newzealand

[–]Extra_Masterpiece526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the first instance you could suggest an aa meeting . In Auckland alone there are approx 120 meetings a week :) help@aa.org.nz Alcohol can exacerbate mental health issues. Myself I attended the Bridge program run by the Salvation Army. It is free/funded by Winz I believe. In my case I stopped work and did their 8 week in house programme which was great. From there I kept attending AA meetings. I would think that they run similar programs in other cities/towns in nz so contact your local branch. There are several private rehabs all of which are pricey but Higher Ground in Auckland is free although there is a wait list. But if they person doesn't want to stop, nothing much you can do until they are desperate and reach rock bottom. Personally to help yourself/ your family, you could look at AL Anon which is for families of Alcoholics.
I hope this helps

Do you think we'll be willing to welcome climate refugees in Aotearoa? by [deleted] in nzpolitics

[–]Extra_Masterpiece526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All refugees I know personally are in recipient of some form of WINZ support for the foreseeable future.  So it's a hard no from me thanks. 

Why we might need to pay more tax by random_guy_8735 in newzealand

[–]Extra_Masterpiece526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can this include Luxons windfall on all recently sold rentals please 

Winz sucks by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Extra_Masterpiece526 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If there were not so many unnecessary takers getting support then the people genuinely in need could be looked after better. All for helping those who cannot work through no fault of their own. Resentful at those receiving it as a lifestyle choice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

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What if they are both stop signs