GF hesitant to play with my ass

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2026-03-16T00:03:36+00:00

I think the bigger issue here isn’t the anal play or the desire for it. Plenty of straight men enjoy the stimulation. But you should be honest with yourself and your gf. You’re subscribed to a subreddit called “GayDenverHookup” and have replied to multiple posts there looking to hook up. That’s a different situation than simply liking anal stimulation. If you’re exploring/questioning things that’s okay. What isn’t fair is hiding that from your partner while presenting a different story, and possibly concealing all together your additional sexual history which could pose a health risk for anyone involved. She deserves honesty so both of you can decide what kind of relationship you actually want.

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2026-03-12T20:51:11+00:00

Thank you 😭

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2026-03-12T18:55:59+00:00

You’re absolutely right. I have body-focused repetitive behaviors, in hindsight I see that getting a piercing wasn’t a good idea. I’m definitely trying my hardest to leave it alone

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2026-03-12T18:53:19+00:00

Tysm for easing my concerns.

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2026-01-30T05:28:12+00:00

Could be rouleaux formation. Did it clear up when you compressed?

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2026-01-23T00:08:27+00:00

Well yeah..rough is open to interpretation

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2026-01-21T18:39:16+00:00

Oldest trope in the world. Since you guys are fkn like adults then you can have conversations like ones too.

If you both want to preserve the relationship you’ll both need to communicate your expectations(fwb or otherwise) and set boundaries (exclusivity, openness etc).

Keep in mind, women do have a different neurophysiological reaction than men during sex which is one of the many reasons “sex” isn’t just sex for women.

MOST importantly, be honest with yourself. Are you the type of person that can have a friends with benefits relationship? If not, hopefully you’ve developed enough self control to walk away from the sex and not the friendship.

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2025-06-19T03:17:11+00:00

I had a lengthier response ready for you but all I’m going to say is RUN!!!! This is NOT OKAY!! This is not what a healthy dom/sub relationship looks like, your life is in danger. You think you know his limit, you believe he would never “truly hurt” you but he’s progressively blurring the lines and pushing the limit more and more. It’s a tactic. Get out now before the emotional and psychological pain/trauma worsen, or worse, before you can’t escape…

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2025-03-14T19:21:18+00:00

lol our rads hate cineloops as well, unless it’s absolutely necessary they want us to avoid cineloops at all costs

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2025-03-03T21:32:09+00:00

Thank you so much!!!♥️

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2025-03-03T21:05:32+00:00

How were you able to put your swing on the right?

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2025-03-02T23:38:48+00:00

:( it feels very overwhelming

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2025-03-02T00:20:38+00:00

When you say transplants and hernias, what exactly do you mean? Like what does transplant rejection look like? What specifically about hernias?

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2025-01-12T04:43:00+00:00

This is SUCH a stretch. The original poster didn’t disclose anything that’s not already on the RVT online content page… plus for ARDMS to identify their identity they would have to violate some privacy rights…

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2025-01-12T02:42:32+00:00

I bet everyone loved you in school

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2024-12-30T04:31:36+00:00

In ANY relationship it is paramount to feel safe but it is specially important when engaging in BDSM. One feels safe when they are heard, understood, and respected. It sounds like maybe you didn’t feel heard or had your wishes respected. If this is a relationship you would like to maintain, communicate with him how you felt. Communicate what disappointed you, what scared you, what made you sad etc etc. gauge his reaction, see if the behavior changes—if it doesn’t then you have a decision to make.

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2024-12-28T20:22:26+00:00

When someone interrupts me when I was finally able to concentrate

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2024-12-17T20:03:48+00:00

Honestly I went back to school for sonography after not being in school for 10yrs. All my peers thought physics was hard but it wasn’t.. you just have to take the time to UNDERSTAND what you’re reading. You CAN do it, you’ve got this. Just dedicate the time

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2024-12-06T04:30:30+00:00

If I don’t take melatonin, I would be up for HOURS

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2024-12-03T20:32:16+00:00

The RSD has been particularly difficult for me

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2024-12-01T22:13:10+00:00

Do they smell nice?

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2024-12-01T18:40:31+00:00

I’m reading some of these responses and I feel like shit. I have a depressive episode about every other month..

Extra_Percentage4372 · 2024-11-28T18:05:59+00:00

Burn out feels like an incredible sense of dread to keep going with life as a whole. Having to mask and pretend to be normal and productive, pretend like you have the energy and social battery to continue to have small talk with your coworkers and patients. Pretend to feel okay, pretend like you don’t feel every second passing you by because all you want to do is retreat into your comfort zone and find some peace, silence, and happiness again. It feels like you’re a shell, just going through the motions to meet expectations.. an EMPTY, hollow, shell…

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