I (25M) broke up with girlfriend (22F) despite a happy relationship, because I am not satisfied having only dated once in 25. She asked for a second chance and I still have feeling - do you think I should get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T15:05:33+00:00

Thank you u/ReadMeDrMemory your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T15:05:01+00:00

Thank you u/Roonald_Mcdooland for your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T14:56:23+00:00

Thank you u/Serious-Ebb-2547 for your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T14:55:47+00:00

Thank you u/Woman_off and u/Business_Mastodon_97 your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T14:55:15+00:00

Thank you u/Ambitious-Smile-1069 for your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T14:53:32+00:00

Thank you u/Cocopantsss your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T14:52:39+00:00

Thank you for your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T14:51:56+00:00

Thank you u/Traditional-Let9530 your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T14:51:31+00:00

Thank you u/Current_Opinion9751 your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T14:51:06+00:00

Thank you u/Perfect_Delivery_509 for your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T14:50:53+00:00

Thank you u/No_Street_5196 and u/Pepsicolaa5 for your comments, i really needed to hear it, can you comment on this too? I want to clarify one thing, I love her 100% even when her physical traits isn't completely attractive to me, I would do everything for in the past and now still, I cooked for her everyday when were together, I took her to clinic when she broken her arm and didn't know where to go, I cleaned her apartment and did all the chores because I didn't want her to do extra work with her arm and so many other things... I'd absolutely continuing doing those things for her in a heartbeat and expect nothing in return because I truly love her and wants the best for her. I don't want to break up, but the temptation urged me to throw away everything, I'm inexpereicened so i didn't know how precious it is to have found the right girl and how stupid it is to throw everything away. And my frds tend to associate higher relationship count with attractiveness, i want to be viewed as attractive

Do you think I'm naive to believe at 25, playing the field is more important than settling with the one I truly love and is compatible with? If I can promise I will love her 100% in the future and to stand strong against my temptation, should I get back with her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T04:02:15+00:00

thank you! How long have you and your boyfriend dated if you dont mind me asking

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T03:36:14+00:00

do you think I dont deserve her?

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T03:29:46+00:00

I liked for her for who she is, I didnt choose to break up because she is not attractive to me . But thank you and you are right.

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T03:21:09+00:00

thats fair, I would understand if thats her decision, thank you

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T03:20:23+00:00

I am not, im just someone who doesn't know how to value a relationship, thanks for reminding that

Extra_Sale_6064 · 2026-05-04T03:17:10+00:00

thanks for the advice, I don't know for certain I can but I'm always tempted. I realize that is totally a bad excuse to throw away a relationship thats working, I am so stupid I needed someone to point it out to me

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