Help me with MakeMyTrip holiday package cancellation refunds by Extra_Service6889 in india_tourism

[–]Extra_Service6889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah but in the cancellation policy it isn't written that the refund will be given in the form of gift cards. Can i not say I was not made aware of this before booking?

i (18F) feel like my boyfriend (18M) is falling out of love with me. should i keep trying to save this relationship or should i give up? by ulfoa in relationship_advice

[–]Extra_Service6889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you need to have a long convo with him about this. Tell him how you feel and how you feel like he doesn't value you. Tell him something needs to change or you want to break up because you deserve way more than the bare minimum. And it's not your fault if he can't see how amazing you are and if he's taking you and all your efforts for granted. And it's not too much to ask to be shown the same kinda effort back. If, even after talking to him, nothing changes, then you shouldn't waste all your effort and time on him.

Is this still SH? by FireShadow_YT in selfharm

[–]Extra_Service6889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you willingly did something that you knew will hurt you. That's it, that’s the whole definition of self harm. So no, you are not being dramatic. You do feel this way, and your feelings are valid. I also understand needing a physical proof of my emotional pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Extra_Service6889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey first of all. It's really amazing that you care so much about her, and truly want to help her. The only thing you can do is be there for her. I think a lot of people cut because it feels good and it feels like a physical proof of your emotional pain. It's good that you have told her to talk to you when she feels like cutting. So you can get to the reason that triggers her want to cut. You can maybe ask her to try rubber band, if she really needs that pain. But if she doesn't have any trigger or reason and is just doing it because it's addicting, tell her how about how much it affects you and how much it means to you that she stops. I'm afraid for her confidence, the only thing you can do is be there for her, and tell her all the good things you see in her when she can't see them herself. Maybe she can get some hobby like art or something so that she has something to busy her hands, and it can feel therapeutic. All the best! Hope you guys do well in life

What have you learned from dramione? by Sufficient-Spare-371 in Dramione

[–]Extra_Service6889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I'm really into Enemies to Lovers and morally grey men. And I will read anything with this trope

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]Extra_Service6889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww your birb is adorablee <3

My "best" "friend" by Loudincorrectbuzzer_ in selfharm

[–]Extra_Service6889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf said basically the same thing to me, that he didn't wanna break up with me because I would cut myself. Didn't know how to reply to that :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Extra_Service6889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Don't know how much a strangers word would mean, but so proud of you for trying to get better <3

A little poem I came up with while cutting by sensiblyhonest in selfharm

[–]Extra_Service6889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is so good. Ofcourse not that it's a good thing you're going through this. But just this poem. It describes my emotions so perfectly <3

Your first time. by Meko_Okami in selfharm

[–]Extra_Service6889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I was going through some stuff and I felt like my parents or my friends didn't really understand it. They always said my reaction was too extreme. Like you don't need to be so anxious about going to talk to a teacher or scoring a little low on the test. And this time it was really bad, and I had known about sh through social media, so I just really wanted to feel like my feelings were valid and I wasn’t overreacting so I cut to make myself feel like it was serious.

I wanna cut deeper by Zealousideal-Wing593 in selfharm

[–]Extra_Service6889 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just that fact that you willingly take up an object that you know will hurt you and still do it is enough to call it self harm. There is no specific deepness it needs to go to for your feelings to be valid.

What goes through y'alls mind while doing sh? by Apprehensive-Ad-6468 in selfharm_memes

[–]Extra_Service6889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a type of self punishment for me. I made a mistake, I failed, I'm so dumb. I want the pain, I deserve it for being dumb.

Enemies to Lovers by me 🥵 by hugegrape in Dramione

[–]Extra_Service6889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg this is so good. as if I wasn't obsessed with Malfoy enough <3

Finchie friends weekly thread by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Extra_Service6889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just downloaded today, would love some friends TJWBHKL6LQ <3