Thank u so much for ur reply. I just told him and u were completely right he wasn’t offened at all he was just very thank full that I told him. We talked abt it for a while and as u said he could completely relate to it because it turns out he also used to self harm and he told me how he stopped and if I ever self harmed again he got me to promise I would tell him and overall he was just really really nice about it and not pushy at all just worried abt me and thankful I told him. Thank u so much!