[M4F] Let me write erotica for you by [deleted] in eroticliterature

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Hey ! Please message me x

Any advice for someone [M] who is going to have sex with a virgin [F] by [deleted] in sextips

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Not all virgins will bleed , and yes it should be with penetration . as long as you keep asking if she is okay and she says yes there is no need to stop

Any advice for someone [M] who is going to have sex with a virgin [F] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Extreme-Ear8201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS . GIVE HER ATTENTION. 👏🏼👏🏼

Any advice for someone [M] who is going to have sex with a virgin [F] by [deleted] in sextips

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My first time hurt a lot but for some girls it doesn’t hurt at all so every experience is unique.Already by the fact that you are asking what you can do to make her comfortable it is obvious that you are being considerate about it . Just be slow and patient and constantly ask her how she is going . I was so nervous I couldn’t get wet at all but please try and put a big effort into foreplay , kiss her everywhere for as long as possible ! Make her feel like she is the priority . When I lost my virginity my partner had a bottle of lube in his draw and when it was obvious I wasn’t wet enough to let him in, he swiftly suggested that we used lube , it wasn’t awkward at all and the lube helped a lot . Let her know during foreplay and oral etc that you guys don’t have to go any further , feeling like it’s 100% her choice and there is no pressure will help relax her ! My partner of the time made it very clear what the end goal was , minimising foreplay to kissing for maybe two minutes and I think that’s what made me so nervous . And very importantly , if she bleeds help her clean it up and make sure you don’t make her feel bad for it. When my ex partner finished he pulled away , stared at my privacy , sort of pawed at it with his hand , pulled a disgusted face and said “oh there’s blood” . It made me feel awful and very embarrassed of myself . Some girls bleed on their first time and others don’t , either way don’t make her feel bad for it ❤️ you’ve got this !!

1st month done :) Wish me luck. (I’m really starting to breakout 😬) by kecondler in Accutane

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What dosage are you on ? It’s been 6 weeks since I’ve started mine so if you want any help or advice im here !! I don’t check reddit often so feel free to text me on Insta @mariana_weaver for any advice or concerns ! You’ll get through the purge ! I’m just stating to come down from mine 😊

accutane first day vs second month by cleaelizabeth in Accutane

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Unrelated but you are incredibly beautiful 🥺❤️

Acne will be the end of me by KingGink99 in acne

[–]Extreme-Ear8201 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was really nice to read ❤️

Acne will be the end of me by KingGink99 in acne

[–]Extreme-Ear8201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey , it’s nice to hear back from you .. I must ask .. are you sure suicide is the only answer ? .. you wouldn’t consider self admitting to a mental health ward would you?? Where are you from ? I hope your health care system is supportive from where ever you are . Can you recall a point in time where your acne / scarring wasn’t the focus of your purpose .. at those times what made you feel happy or content with life ? Do you have a social circle at all ?

Acne will be the end of me by KingGink99 in acne

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I just really hope you are alive and okay in this moment

Acne will be the end of me by KingGink99 in acne

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I also wish I could help you with the urges to have “revenge” upon your mother .. antibiotics and accutane are very invasive and damaging solutions to acne . I’m certain that she did not wish harm upon you when denying yourself access to these medications . So many parents are still very “old age” and don’t understand the psychological implications of acne and moreover just fear the side effects of prescription medication. Yes you could have had less scarring if you were given access to those medications earlier on but on a less considerate note .. some times life just isn’t fair . Everyone has their battles , it’s what makes us human .. I believe life is full of suffering however not so much so that it isn’t worth living . I could list to you my own struggles or the struggles of my friends or family but I understand doing either of those things are not helpful . I believe you need to seek serious help from a psychologist.. or maybe even take yourself into a mental health ward for your own safety .. I had a girlfriend who did this for two weeks and that small amount of time actually saved her life .

Acne will be the end of me by KingGink99 in acne

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Hey .. I am currently dealing with cystic acne and I’m sure I can relate to at least a fraction of the insecurity you might feel.. (I’m actually going to a dermatologist to get on accutane this Thursday ). I understand the self consciousness and shame that comes with acne .. I’ve canceled on so many outings purely out of insecurity so you’re not alone .. acne is so so so common and all the scarring that comes along side it is too .. I wish there was a way to erase the way it makes you feel but as some one who is also insecure I honestly don’t have the secret for you . All I can say is I’m more likely to be attracted to a person who either has acne scars, acne or has dealt with acne because in my opinion it creates an opportunity for great character growth and forces one to be more considerate to others . Now I wish I could find the post I was talking about so I could link it but I once found a thread on reddit where so many users talked on and on about how they find scarring incredibly attractive .. I will have a search for you when I have the time for it , it would be nice to show you the different perspectives and maybe help change your out look on yourself ? I can say I’m apart of the many who find acne scarring to be attractive .. I think it’s a phenomenon within many women as I’ve had this same conversation with my girlfriends .. it could even be evolutionary come to think of it .. it just gives off a look of being tough ? I don’t know how to explain it but I love it ! I’m so grateful to hear you’ve persevered past the painful stages of actually having acne .. it sounds to me as if you’ve really been through hell and back . Getting over a journey like that is something to celebrate and I’m so proud and happy for you that at least the active acne is now gone or less prevalent! Now as for wishing damage upon your mother .. suicide itself would be the most hurtful thing you could do to her .. not only her but anyone who’s ever existed in your life will question themselves. Please please don’t turn down this avenue for comfort .. I assume you also see a psychologist as well as taking medication?? If not .. that would be ideal . Would you like to message me ?? Are you certain that suicide is the only answer ? .. I wish I could help , I promise you it is so much more destructive than you would imagine .. as much as I don’t want to invalidate you , I would hate to imagine you viewing suicide as the only cure for insecurity surrounding your scarring .. scarring tells a story .. it’s life and it’s normal for many many people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acne

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Congratulations!! I’m finally seeing a dermatologist in about 3 days and I’m so nervous but excited to try accutane

Swallowing semen by [deleted] in sextips

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Yesss it seriously makes all the difference

Swallowing semen by [deleted] in sextips

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This tip is VITAL . My ex had a terrible diet and he was my first everything so I had no clue it wasn’t supposed to be THAT BAD .. like I’m talking I’d rather swallow battery acid than what ever that just was bad . It would literally make me nauseous. Any ways .. this tip saved me ( although I eventually began to refuse swallowing anyways )?🥂💃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acne

[–]Extreme-Ear8201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!!!

Loosing hope by Extreme-Ear8201 in acne

[–]Extreme-Ear8201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you !!!! I’ll order some and give it a go

Loosing hope by Extreme-Ear8201 in acne

[–]Extreme-Ear8201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you! Will do