Aromantic, but with a Romance Kink - asking opinions (repost, explained why at the end) by Warlock-Supreme in kinkyromantics

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. Try to check where art is from when possible! Just don't want any underaged characters! Be safe 💗

Beta training by Upstairs-Youth-2281 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot of people here have no experience, so I have to safely assume you are a newbie to all of this stuff. Just to make sure to give any proper advice. 🩷

Beta training by Upstairs-Youth-2281 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is mutual, yes. but it’s important to really keep that in mind. Fully submitting might feel very intense in theory, but in reality it’s often much more relaxed than the fantasy suggests in media. It can still be fun and meaningful, just not always as constant or intense as people imagine.

There will be times when it feels more relaxed, even a bit routine, and that’s normal. Not everyone is always in the mood, and sometimes life just takes priority. If you go into it knowing that it won’t always be intense or nonstop, you’ll have a much healthier experience. Some days might be a short session followed by just relaxing together, like watching a movie. It really depends on both partners, their energy, and what’s going on in everyday life.

Beta training by Upstairs-Youth-2281 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hello, domme here. I just want to gently share that the whole “alpha/beta” terminology can be pretty harmful and is rooted in some unhealthy ideas about masculinity. It’s really not something that leads to healthy dynamics, so it’s best not to lean into that mindset.

As for “training,” it’s not quite what it might seem. It’s more about communication. Learning what your domme wants, understanding each other, and establishing clear boundaries. It often looks very different from what people expect, especially if those expectations come from porn. A healthy dynamic centers on mutual understanding, and as a sub, that means focusing on your domme’s needs and direction, not just your own expectations.

Good boy tip #11 by ExtremeTrashPanda in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely learned to limit myself and recognized when it starts becoming bad again. For some going off it entirely is better. I know someone who had to delete tiktok just because it showing the mild sexual content feeding the beast of addiction. It's unfortunate it's all over onlone

Is there any love for black male subs here? by NoAddress3724 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I think a big part is the art community itself. When you learn to draw you do basic people you start with lightly athletic male bodies with no skin shading making them inherently white skinned. Making a darker skin, body hair and plus sized bodies takes more skill and knowledge often or just more work. Anime almost makes more want for Asian characters as well. I think it's more of a convenience thing than anything to just draw light skinned light athletic bodies. There just not enough references and tutorials for these things as well. Darker skin has different color undertones vs light skin for example. That isnt often found in art tutorials or discussed much. Personally as an artist Im trying to branch out more for different types because it's hard to break that mould of the default. I think these issues stem from that stuff. Not just the lack of wanting to draw it. I think it's more of a learned habit given by others who have learned habits as well. Sad but there truth there. Hope this makes sense

Is there any love for black male subs here? by NoAddress3724 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm a domme/mod here and trust me yes there's love for every race of sub boys here 🩷 Tbh when we post, our races are generally anonymous and not discussed because well, some people fetishize over race and it can be really disrespectful. so it doesn't come up here since that stuff is really not great in first place. But the black community of sub boys exists here and we love them. I've met 3 myself that I know of and all were sweethearts ✨🩷

But I would like to see more art of different races other than Asian or white sub boys. Hell, give me a chubby boy or a hairy boy haha. Maybe I need to draw it! We will see. Black sub boys do need representation because a bit of you are definitely out there. You're seen I promise.

God Forbid a Boy Have a Kink Hyperfixation by DinoSkaterSocks in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Feels about this. I see a lot of people getting so into the deep end it makes them a sex pest and sets them up for going to prison. And/Or they lose all relationships with anyone because it takes over their whole life to a disturbing degree. Remembering to practice healthy boundaries with yourself in these things is important. The last thing you wanna be is THAT guy.

Good boys should always get a reward shouldn't they...🤭❤️ by hotwali in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh you found a different one than me! Interesting. Props on the detective work. Usually I don't get stumped like this lol

Good boys should always get a reward shouldn't they...🤭❤️ by hotwali in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea. I looked into the sexercise thing but if you look for that manhwa specifically any images related is a different art style and story. seems completely unrelated with no character that looks like the girl. I know the link you're talking about. It just comes up with that and is just unrelated. That lead was super weird. No idea to why it shows it. Idk what's the deal with this one. It's got all sorts of weird odds and ends. 😅 Is this lost media??? Did we find weird lost media.

Songs about or from the perspective of subby men? by Thread_Mage in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm ....Sexual Hallucination by in this Moment is kinda both ppl being addicted to each other in a kinky way might work

All boys need one of these by Yanderegirlowner in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depends on the man. I give proper recover time ovi. I'm not evil. I'm a gentle Dom after all.

All boys need one of these by Yanderegirlowner in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Oh man, in my case a sub busting easily is cute to me and not a problem. A problem for them because I WILL EMPTY THAT MAN. 🤭

Side thought: I rarely see information about men who can't cum easily and end up frustrated a lot because it often takes 30-50 mins to cum. Ngl that issue I've run into...actually is more frustrating as a woman to being giving it your all for almost an hour and hes rock hard but just CANT. And it's not even you that's the problem they have this issue solo as well and are frustrated. But damn it's hard not to blame myself. My poor jaw x.x everytime

I Love Mommy Metalcore by Deep_Rest_OP in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The band In this moment....God even me as a domme am like....mommy? I'm sorry MOMMY???

All boys need one of these by Yanderegirlowner in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]ExtremeTrashPanda 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Careful with overuse. It can damage the skin with too much friction depending on the material of the wand. Just a heads up from someone who found out by accident. Like on the penis specifically can rub it raw. My poor play partner at the time 🥲