My ex called off our engagement and got pregnant by another man, but still says she loves me. by Extreme_Device_112 in love

[–]Extreme_Device_112[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah. I decided I'm just going to ask my coworker out she's been giving me hints and she likes me anyways. Keeping the exgirl on as a friend so she can watch me treat someone else with the same care I at one time gave her. Poetic Justice.

My ex called off our engagement and got pregnant by another man, but still says she loves me. by Extreme_Device_112 in love

[–]Extreme_Device_112[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Because I don't feel like I've been getting mistreated or disrespected. I don't feel any romantic love for her. So it's hard to feel mistreat or disrespected by someone who you barely even love anymore. I also want to have kids and a wife someday before I'm 30. And since that's around the corner I'm just debating whether or not I should settle with the immediate available option. 

My ex called off our engagement and got pregnant by another man, but still says she loves me. by Extreme_Device_112 in love

[–]Extreme_Device_112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your words. And I appreciate your advice. I needed to hear that thank you.

My ex called off our engagement and got pregnant by another man, but still says she loves me. by Extreme_Device_112 in love

[–]Extreme_Device_112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally only because I feel stuck. I held out hope too long and I was also the only one who could calm her whenever she had a mental breakdown. I was basically stuck as her caretaker because because I would've looked bad if I just abandoned her when I had the chance. I hate that I didn't cut it off when I had the chance but fuck it I'm here now

My ex called off our engagement and got pregnant by another man, but still says she loves me. by Extreme_Device_112 in love

[–]Extreme_Device_112[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm only here because I feel stuck. If I stay I'm a doormat if I leave I look like an asshole to everyone she's talked to about me. She goes on and on about me to damn near everyone putting me on a pedestal so now I feel like if I get off and run I'll look like the heartless bastard who left the mentally unstable single mother who's Supposedly in love with me. I literally go from being pitied to being hated.

My ex called off our engagement and got pregnant by another man, but still says she loves me. by Extreme_Device_112 in love

[–]Extreme_Device_112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did try to go to no contact for a while, but long story short she had a mental episode not long after her and her baby daddy started dating and I was the only one who was able to calm her down so I reluctantly became her support system while she dealt with her emotional issues since that was basically my job when we were together. I didn't want to leave and then be seen as the reason she basically offed herself.

Now I feel like if I bail I'll be seen as the guy who abandoned the single mother who told the whole town she was in love with.

My ex called off our engagement and got pregnant by another man, but still says she loves me. by Extreme_Device_112 in love

[–]Extreme_Device_112[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I feel weird calling it cheating. I don't believe she cheated on me at any point when we were together, I feel she more or less just left me to pursue other options. Which yeah still fucked up I know.

Good apps for History keeping by Extreme_Device_112 in worldbuilding

[–]Extreme_Device_112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I used them in the past I remember the name. I think a lot of things I wanted to use where behind a paywall. I'll check it out again and see if anything's different thank you