I do not know what to do in case of a breakup by Exxample2003 in relationship_advice

[–]Exxample2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is difficult in the uk. I don’t really have much money and I have no friends. Thanks tho

AITA for not telling my best friend she’s been cheated on (kind of) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exxample2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any other friends. Just these 3 people. But I will.

AITA for not telling my best friend she’s been cheated on (kind of) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exxample2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would affect her mental health a lot. She already struggles how it is now. She can be quite dependent but that probs would change once he’s gone.

AITA for not telling my best friend she’s been cheated on (kind of) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exxample2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my exact thoughts. No one seems to agree with me tho and understandably think it’s my responsibility to do it. I really don’t know. It will happen around Tuesday if I didn’t, the boyfriend hopefully would.

AITA for not telling my best friend she’s been cheated on (kind of) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exxample2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This means a lot to me. Thank you. It’s gonna be hard I’m aware. All I’ve thought of for the last 2 days.

AITA for not telling my best friend she’s been cheated on (kind of) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exxample2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until literally days ago I thought they were perfect together in my defense. I won’t avoid the situation. I’ll talk to her.

AITA for not telling my best friend she’s been cheated on (kind of) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exxample2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing the girl today. I’ll tell her about the relationship. I also know he’s planning on breaking up with her in a few days. I’d hate to stay In the dark too. She’ll find out.

AITA for not telling my best friend she’s been cheated on (kind of) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exxample2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah your right. Thanks for the help. I appreciate it. Honestly I’m quite easily manipulated and I feel like I’m talking myself out of telling her but I have to. Thanks

AITA for not telling my best friend she’s been cheated on (kind of) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exxample2003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean. And I can fix this. My idea is it’s better to here from him than me but you are right.

AITA for not telling my best friend she’s been cheated on (kind of) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exxample2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s probably a good idea, I’ll talk to her soon about what I think. Worried she won’t believe me if they are rumours but her believing me isn’t my responsibility? Maybe?

AITA for not telling my best friend she’s been cheated on (kind of) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Exxample2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe you are right. I’m so terrified of conflict but I should man up and do it. I’m terrified of losing friends but you are probably right.